Can you describe the perfect First Date kiss?

[Wade12345]

Where should the guy's hands be? Holding yours? one hand in your hair or on your cheek as he kisses you on the lips. Should he use tongue on first kiss or not?

[SoIcyGang]

You can't because it's all about how things FEEL.

I understand you're looking for advice or instructions. But that's not how women work.

They work by feeling. You know when it's right to kiss a girl by feeling and that is the only way. If you cannot connect with that, we'll, you're stuck in awkward world forever.

If you can't feel it, just ask her. That's the only way. Either you understand the social romantic dynamic, or you don't.

If you dont, just ask her for a kiss. Don't try to be the guy in the movies that ravishes her. You cannot copy that because it's all about FEELING.

When you interact with women start trying to feel them. Just forget about what your brain is thinking and go down low to the level of feeling.

Only then will you get to the next stage, where you can go for the kiss and it's not awkward because you're able to read the situation correctly.

Buf you aren't reading. Your feeling. Just remember that. You don't get pussy with logic that's all I'm saying.

[Wade12345]

Um, she already told me what she likes, so she really wants me to kiss her a certain way. I'm not asking for advice, I'm just asking for different opinions. the woman i'm talking to is very good at communicating her boundaries, so I know what to do and not do with her. that's a MATURE woman, she tells you what she likes ahead of time and then you know not ot make mistakes.

[SoIcyGang]

She wants you to kiss her a certain way? That makes no sense to me. Maybe she doesn't like tongue or something but you can't define a single type of kissing and be like that's my boundary! I would bounce to the next girl.

[Wade12345]

She wants tongue guy. She wants a lot of other stuff that's nobody else's business. I'm not trying to embarass anyone. I really like this girl, she's the nicest one I've ever talked to online anyway.

[SoIcyGang]

I guess it depends. Like personally, most girls I've dated wanted me to CNC them. Consensual non consent. They want to play rape in the bedroom.

Is it that kind of thing where she's just a girl who needs certain kinds of stimulation?

I think that's fine. It's fun to give your partner what they want.

I just thought it sounded more like the opposite, like don't kiss me like this or that cuz I hate it type of shit. Like she's all closed off from a life of building up strange issues with this or that thing.

Boundaries are cool but some people are boundary crazy I guess? Maybe that's what I was getting from your comment.

[MaazHussain]

It's important to note that what constitutes a "perfect" first date kiss can vary depending on personal preferences and comfort levels. However, here are some general tips:

• The guy's hands should be respectful and not overly aggressive. Holding hands or placing a hand on the small of the back can be appropriate gestures. Avoid grabbing or groping.
• Using one hand to gently cradle the other person's face or to run fingers through their hair can be a romantic touch.
• As for tongue, it's usually best to start with a closed-mouth kiss and gauge the other person's response before introducing tongue. If both parties seem interested, gently and slowly introducing tongue can be a natural progression.

Remember, communication and consent are key. Always make sure you and your partner are comfortable and on the same page before going in for a kiss.

[KathrynTaylor]

When you’re just talking to your date and he leans in and kisses you. That was the most romantic kiss. The fact that he didn’t ask first was a turn on.

[Wade12345]

So be spontaneous?

[KathrynTaylor]

Yes. Most women aren’t really scary nazi types who accuse you of sexual harassment if you make a move spontaneously on a date. She’s out with you. She wants some action. If she doesn’t want it, she’ll tell you.

[Wade12345]

All I want is for the woman to have the best day of her life. haha :).

[KathrynTaylor]

Also if she says something you’re doing is annoying her or making you uncomfortable, she’s not accusing you of sexual harassment. We’re not all nazis like that.

[KathrynTaylor]

Well, how many dates have you had with her.

[Wade12345]

Um, we haven't even met in person yet. We met on here 4 days ago. The woman is amazing, and we can't get enough talking to one another in private.

[KathrynTaylor]

If it’s past date two, press your body against hers.. yes, that bit too; hold her close; and kiss twice open mouthed, then insert your tongue and feel through her mouth for five seconds, then go back to kissing. Keep it up for however long you want. Also ear lobe sucking and breast touching turn us on 😉

[KathrynTaylor]

Well, I think it’s great that you’re asking. Give it a go?

[KathrynTaylor]

Oh ok. Well in that case, I’d save that for date 3. Just do spontaneous and romantic. Kiss for ten seconds. No tongue. Hold her close or just lean in while you’re sitting together talking at the end of the date xo

[KathrynTaylor]

It’s not sexual harassment. She’s out with you, to decide ultimately if she wants to give herself to you.

[Wade12345]

She told me she wants the tongue on the first kiss. See we communicate. I was just asking opinions here, but the woman already gave me permission to kiss her at any time. We've already done a bit of discussion of plans to meet soon. She lives in another state, but either of us can afford to travel to see the other.

[KathrynTaylor]

Ah I see. Then date 3 rules apply.

[Guy13]

Finger tip on edge of chin for "control" and kiss.

[exitseven]

I would be standing at her door telling her what a nice evening I had , I would hold both her hands and look her in the eye and go in slowly for the kiss. I would be gentle at first and then slowly part her plis with my tonue, just a little bit. i would end the kiss and hug her and tell her how nice that was. I would tell her I would call her later.

[Wade12345]

What if the girl invite me inside on the first date?

[exitseven]

i would go inside for a while. I would not expect that.

[Wade12345]

What if she already has? In PM she said she'd rather cuddle at her house than go to a dinner or a coffee date.

[Wade12345]

Hey follow me. I'll talk to you about this in private.

[DribbleGodCurt]

You're 42 and asking this question, it really depends tbh what you and the female are comfortable with, you never know I grab my girls ass and kiss her or the back of her neck while she grabs my waist, it really just depends

[Wade12345]

I thought everyone on the website knew I was a Virgin by now.

[DribbleGodCurt]

Oh okay that makes more sense, I'm not on this website that much, but if you're a virgin take things slow grab the back of her neck or her waist for some reason women love that, and when you get closer you can grab her ass

[Anonymous]

The one where she sucks my dick after

[Wade12345]

keep women's business to yourself dude. Never treat a woman like she's your possession. She is your equal in everything morally and intellectually, and probably even superior morally and intellectually.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok simp

[Aliceandoh]

Hello there

[Wade12345]

Hello. What do yu like a man to do s as he is giving you the first kiss.