Hello, GAG users! Thank you for taking the time out to read my post. So, my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years. We both in our 20's and still live at home with our parents. Don't judge us please. We are working on getting our own place. Anyways, sometimes I would go and spend a night at his house. His mother never had a problem with me spending a night. We would always greet each other with smiles when I would come over and I thought everything was cool. On Monday, I went to his house to spend a night and I planned on leaving tomorrow morning. She knew I was there. But. when his mother got home from work tonight , she randomly tole him to tell me that I had to leave. She was rude and had an attitude. I didn't do anything wrong. I wonder if its because I mistakenly laughed too loud last night. But, I don't know. I feel like she never liked me from the beginning and was faking. She always has these Radom attitudes. She treats my boyfriend like shit sometimes. Now, for some reason I don't feel like dealing with him anymore. This wasn't his fault but I am just so turned off by what happened. Am I wrong for feeling like this?
Yes, you're wrong for wanting to cut ties.
Her house. She gets to decide.
If you can't handle something like this in a relationship, then you're not mature enough for the relationship.
The real approach is to go to the mom and nicely inquire what happened. Ask if somehow you made a mistake or caused offense.
But if your first instinct is to get huffy and want to break up with him, then that says a lot.
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Overreacting and you should take it up with the people directly involved instead of taking it out on others. If Mom does not like you she knows how to play you for sure.
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Why would you cut ties with him for something his mother did? She could have just been upset or maybe she really doesn't like you, but how is that his fault?
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You don’t cut ties with somebody because you have a problem with the mother you work it out
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