How long should I wait while texting back and forth for him to meet up with me? (3 hours driving distance between us)?

[Anonymous]

do you think after two weeks he’s using me for some entertainment maybe? Would he have driven out to see me if he was interested enough? Or should I just give it more time to grow?

backgound:
We had a fling 10 years ago. I messaged him on a dating app he seemed very excited. He lives 3 hours away so I get why he hasn’t asked me on a date yet. He has said “we should meet up next time Im in your city” and I made it clear I wanted to meet. but I wonder how long I wait because we are texting every day and I don’t want to start getting emotionally invested or using my energy if he’s it’s not what we expected seeing eachother in real life after more than 10 years.

[Guy13]

It is time to put your foot down. Four days of texting and a weekend meet or I am done. This would be me but maybe not you...

[Anonymous]

I think before going any further you need to ask him what’s his intentions are for talking to you, and ask yourself how feasible dating him even is. Living 3 hours apart isn’t terrible but it also isn’t very convenient and I envision this being an LDR situation. Which raises the question if you’re interested in that sort of relationship. It isn’t for everyone.

[Asker]

You’re right that’s not something to brush off, I will have to find a way to ask him those questions. Thanks for the input!