So we’ve been chatting on tinder for 4 months now. We’ve met and meet up once a week. We’re both chatting off Tinder now so I don’t use it anymore I’ve hidden myself from being matched with others but I’ve still got his conversation so I can see when he’s been active.
He hasn’t been active on it since we have met from what I’ve noticed and he’s admitted to me he likes me a lot and he’s looking for a connection. Overall I do trust this guy but this weekend he is going interstate with a friend to a different city and I’m curious to see if he will have a look on tinder. If he does I don’t want to waste my time and I want to just delete him off Snapchat and unmatch on tinder so essentially “ghost him”.
I know we’re not exclusive yet but since he’s told me he is actually genuinely interested and in pursuing something with me I would see that as a red flag. If ghosting him is wrong what else should I do?
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Don't punish a guy for being just curious, especially if you are 'not exclusive yet'.
If you trust him, you will know that even if he looks in the app, he is just looking and not actually dating.
If you break it off just because he opens the app, you do not trust him. And anyway... In order to know about him opening Tinder, you would have to open Tinder (to see that) too, which he will be able to see.
Even if he uses the app, it's just a weekend. No big deal. Like you said you're not exclusive or anything. But since you feel he likes you and there's a connection between you he probably already forgotten tinder is installed on his phone, i bet he won't go online. Not even to check what's going on around there.
You could try talking to him?