Do you believe we have control over the people we attract?

[Filthy_Immigrant]

since my high school days I've been attracting these types of women.

not sure what exactly have I done to deserve to such a thing. but one thing I do know is I've avoided and never put any effort in relationships for this same exact reason. I just never though it was worth it.

but for some reason till this day these are still the women I attract or at least they have the same vibe as the above. even the once that make the first move on me, I just ignore them or act a fool because something always tell me that they are gonna take me for a ride later on, a ride that I either probably won't return from or most likely returned with an empty bank account and PSTD.

[coachTanthony]

There is no such thing as people we attract. There is only people we are attracted too with so many red flags that we allow them to stay in our lives just long enough in order to come up with the stupid narrative that we somehow attract certain people. Deep breath. lol

[Guy13]

Damn, luck has to change. Don’t know where you are but bigger cuty will be better.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

cuty?

[Guy13]

City. sorry...

[Filthy_Immigrant]

oh I was about to say. but yeah I been considering that for quite a while now. I was thinking of moving to Las Vegas

[Nikki1989]

Not really. All you can do is accept or ignore.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

thank God ignore is an option

[LazerBean]

Yes to a certain extent.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I attract nothing, lol.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

lucky

[Blackcupcake]

no… I wish tho