White men are sexist?

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I'm not sure if this speaks for the majority of white men but I ve such a huge surge in white men dating Asian women because of reasons like "slimmer", "submissive" "docile" etc. Only to be shocked by how a lot of the Asian women are none of these. Once they see that they want marriage or are not submissive, they make a quick exit.

I dont want shame anyone but a large majority of these Asian girls are quite unattractive with poor English speaking skills yet the white men go to them stating they prefer Asians only because of the said qualities. A friend of mine said that she has heard comments from white guys saying "you are the perfect Asian size", "submissive in bed" etc.

One of my male friends only dated Asian girls until he got tired of each one of them wanting to get serious or married. Now he's back to dating white women.

On the other hand, Asian women date white guys either because they want the visa or the money if the guy is rich. I speak from experience as I ve heard so many Chinese girls wanting a white guy to stay in the UK. I ve also seen 20 something Asian women with men as old as 50+.

What is wrong with white men these days? Isn't this creepy and sexist?

misogynistic_pig · Accepted Answer

Yes, Asian women are physically unattractive.

There is a practice for a man to improve his dating chances as a westerner dating in south east asia.

Dating in Southeast Asia is an almost guaranteed way to get a girlfriend if one has some money, is above average height, and is white.

Native Southeast Asian men are often associated with low income, short stature, and small penises; the exact opposite of what women naturally want.

Asian girls covet white men with Nordic Nordic looks.

Some non-white men may also do well with Asian women, as long as they are lighter skinned than the local male population.

Some incels waste their life savings and get into debt chasing the stereotype that Russian or Eastern European women are easy.

Russian and Eastern European women are not easy, SEA women are.

Women from Eastern Europe and Russia pretend to be easy while they suck you dry (of money, nothing more).

Eastern European men are not as unpleasant to Eastern European women as SEA men are to SEA women.

Ukraine is actually harder for incels than Thailand, even though Ukraine is MUCH MUCH poorer than Thailand and a veritable war torn hell on earth.

Looking for Asian women as an alternative to white western women is not always a good idea.

There are a number of disadvantages to dating or marrying Asian women, as a result of Asian culture and genetics: Men of mixed Asian and white descent tend to be shorter, less muscular, and generally more feminized in appearance.

This can result in half-white, half-Asian youth finding themselves in the same position as their white incel parent.

Berethor · Accepted Answer

If white men are sexist then why feminism was allowed to flourish in white countries more than anywhere else? yes now there is some backlash against feminists in the west and men that want tradwives, you say that Asian women are gold diggers, but they are also fairly obsessed about white looks. Looks like white women are worried about Asian women stealing white men, it understandable, if more white women become tradwives it would happen less.

https://edition.cnn.com/2013/06/25/health/asian-beauty/index.html

Enaya · Accepted Answer

It's more a regional issue with women in poorer countries (ex USSR, ex Communist) practicing hypergamy (going for more successful men by comparison). That happens to be Western white men now. The men practicing mail-order-bride or yellow fever tactics by going for women who will look up to them are not innocent, they are stereotyping like you say and they want to be comparitively impressive to those women because they are not usually top tier dating candidates in their own regions. So it's a mutually beneficial setup with the white man stereotyping and the woman getting a lift up in life.

Guy13 · Answer

Oh stop being jealous as it is not becoming on you. You'll find yours too. The Asian women are typically more traditional and the white girls are either Bitter or Nasty body counters... not all maybe  but most have junk all over the place or other extreme with tom boy/puritan

Leopard23 · Answer

I think its perfectly reasonable. Why wouldn't any man seek out the best possible partner. I mean in America all an average girl had to be is not fat but unfortunately average women in America is fat while the average American guy to get an average American girl has to be 6ft+, make good money, athletic/muscular, well educated etc. You are basically shaming average American guys for going after women that are willing to date them rather than simp after American women who don't have intrest in them.

Anonymous · Answer

I do know a guy who is attracted to Asian women but not for any of the sexist reasons. The Asian lady who he married isn't particularly submissive. I think he just likes their looks and it is a physical attraction thing. He is happily married and has been married for over 25 years.

Anonymous · Answer

White men like to date Asian women BECAUSE they want to get serious or get married.

Asian women are much more likely to be like what western white women used to be. Even Asian women who grow up in the US are more likely to have been raised in more traditional households where they learned conservative values, were less damaged by feminist ideology and have more positive views of men and relationships. That's what good men want, and most western white women don't offer it anymore.

CALIGVLA · Answer

Hmmmmmmm!!! Sounds like Karen got cucked by an Asian girl and now hates white men and Asian girls. It happens with the best white women, Karen. 😆

NamerOfStars · Answer

Only dating women when you're a man isn't "being sexist", it's "being heterosexual".

Marked_Man · Answer

What happened? Did your ex boyfriend dump your jealous ass for an Asian girl lol?

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

I'm not racist at all, but Asian chicks are bland and they all look the same

gorydetails · Answer

If you say so. No one gives a fuck what labels you put on people. You're nothing.

Anonymous · Answer

As a white man, i find Chinese women to be very "feminine" and "girly" which i like, but to your point, yes, most rarely have an ass or tits and are mainly flat, and yes, they care about money, power, and green cards

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

That's racist more than sexist.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Oh stop playing the victim card.

Byuser · Answer

I'm not racist

White men are sexist?

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