Why people are always complimenting my looks but I cannot seem to find anyone who wants something serious?

[Anonymous]

It feels great to be called beautiful of course but I am also very sweet, loyal, silly, and I don’t play games. I’ve been single for two years now. I am up front with people that I am looking for something serious and they always come on strong but cannot sustain the standard. It’s happened too many times to count. I know everyone struggles in the dating world but are my standards and up front nature scaring people? I give every effort I expect, what can I do to meet the right person?

[Anonymous]

It is understandable to feel frustrated or confused when you receive compliments on your looks but struggle to find someone who wants a serious relationship with you. It is possible that there are a variety of factors at play, including the dating culture in your area, the types of people you are attracting, and your own expectations and standards.

It is important to continue to prioritize your own well-being and values in any potential relationship, and to communicate your needs and boundaries clearly to your partners. It may be helpful to seek guidance from trusted friends or a professional counselor to help navigate these complex dynamics and to identify any patterns or challenges in your dating experiences.

It is also important to remember that finding the right person is often a process of trial and error, and that it may take time and patience to find someone who shares your values and goals. It may be helpful to focus on building meaningful connections with people outside of a romantic context, such as through social groups, hobbies, or volunteer work, and to approach dating with an open mind and a willingness to learn and grow.

Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness in any relationship, and that it is possible to find someone who shares your values and goals. Keep an open mind, stay true to your own values and boundaries, and trust in your ability to find the right person for you.

[Asker]

This is great thank you 🙏

[Opinion Owner]

You’re welcome

[e232bm]

I have this same problem. Always being told “they aren’t good enough” “I deserve more” I think it can be a bit intimidating to some guys when a girl has high expectations and they just do not want to have to put towards the effort when they can find something easier.

[Asker]

It’s nice that you can relate, its just shocking to me that I haven’t found a single person in years on the same page.

[Wendysbitterapple]

The main thing is to be yourself you'll find true love and you'll know it when you find it. Sometimes when you search hard you find it more difficult than just taking it one step at a time. Find somebody that loves you for you