My university fellow stares me a lot but there is some problem?

[Arehman]

We have a very deep eye contact many times even we know that we like each other. I texted her , she always reply me as soon as possible but the problem is she show me rude attitude during texting.
I am confused?

[Anonymous]

It's possible that your university fellow is interested in you but is unsure how to express her feelings or is experiencing some internal conflict. It's also possible that she is not interested in a romantic relationship and is simply being polite by responding to your messages.

As for her showing a rude attitude during texting, it's important to consider the context of the conversation and the nature of the messages being exchanged. Sometimes, text messages can be misinterpreted or tone can be difficult to discern, which can lead to misunderstandings and hurt feelings.

If you're unsure about her feelings or intentions, it may be helpful to have an honest and open conversation with her. Try to express your own feelings and intentions in a respectful and non-threatening way, and see if there is a mutual interest in pursuing a romantic relationship.

If she is not interested, it's important to respect her decision and maintain a respectful and friendly relationship. Remember that being friends can be a valuable and rewarding connection in its own right, and it's important not to pressure or push someone into a romantic relationship if they are not interested.

[Arehman]

Yeah texting sometimes confuses because we are not assure about intentions of other person.

[Opinion Owner]

That's true, texting can sometimes lead to misunderstandings because it can be difficult to convey tone and intention through text alone. It's possible that your university fellow's "rude" attitude during texting may simply be a result of miscommunications or misunderstandings.

It's important to communicate openly and honestly with each other, and to try to clarify any potential misunderstandings as they arise. You may want to consider having a face-to-face conversation or a phone call instead of relying solely on texting, as this can help to ensure that both of you are on the same page and that there are no misunderstandings.

Remember to approach the situation with empathy and understanding, and to prioritize mutual respect and open communication in any relationship.

[Arehman]

Thanks man.

[Opinion Owner]

No problem man

[OlderAndWiser]

You are confused because texting is a HORRIBLE way of commuicating relied upon by people who do not have enough intestinal fortitude to just call a girl and have a real conversation on the phone. And your generation is SO addcted to texting that you probably can't fathom doing what I have suggested.

But. . . if you were ACTUALLY TALKING TO HER, you probably would know what she was thinking and feeling and there would be no confusion.

[Arehman]

You are right. texting is so much confusing to understand someone.

[OlderAndWiser]

So set yourslf apart from the crowd and call her.

[Arehman]

I think face to face interaction will much better.

[OlderAndWiser]

Absolutely!

[Arehman]

by the way thanks for u're opinion 👍

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[SueShe]

Eye contact does not mean that there is something brewing and fast texting neither. The fact that she shows you rude attitude indicates that there is a problem somewhere on the line.

How can someone show "rude attitude" while texting? Are the texts themselves rude or how should we understand your wording?

If she seems rude in texts then she will probably be rude on a face to face basis as well.

Could be that you did something or that you failed to do something that she expected. Your best option here is to set the record straight but for that, you need to talk. Communication is essential and usually helps clear misunderstandings.

[Arehman]

She is always ready to reply me even i texted her late night, but said me im not interested. So when i ignored her completely she started to give me glances a lot. And try to come close me again.

[Arehman]

Is she playing or something?

[SueShe]

Difficult to say without knowing that person. If she does, then don't play her game and ignore her. You will see how she reacts to that.

[Screenwriter]

Do you talk to this woman in person? Does she seem rude when you have one on ones with her then?

It's very hard to determine the TONE of a text. Don't make assumptions about that without regular talking to this person. Good luck.

[Arehman]

Yeah i talked to her personally. She replied me in a normal way.

[Screenwriter]

Well, sounds like you're reading into the texts. Listen to how she SPEAKS to you. If there's no rudeness in that, you're mistaking her written communication.

[Anonymous]

You need to talk to her a lot more.

[Arehman]

I tried , but she is hiding whats going on in her mind.

[Iron_Man]

Just keep working with her

[Arehman]

Yeah but i think texting is not a good idea

[Iron_Man]

Talk to her on the phone

[Arehman]

Ok 👍