So i started dating this guy a month ago, we started off pretty fast. He treats me right, but a lot of times, he seems to be thinking that i am dumber. i agree cause i am not academically smart or physically active. He is and some little incidents make me upset. He is a gamer, I game too. I am not particularly good at it i like doing it as fun. He would get upset if i play bad, and my guy bff, who is gay and used to like my boyfriend, but then he liked someone else, he is also a gamer, and he didn't know my boyfriend before Now he would sit next to him instead of me and play with him when my boyfriend plays with me What pisses me off is if i dont do well my boyfriend starts ignoring me and only helps in guiding my bff instead He never gives me instructions during and then after he would keep saying i am horrible even though I try to improve
My guy bff on the other hand has been dead set on saying my boyfriend is gay He keeps saying that I don't know why i myself am bi and i have a strong gaydar but he keeps insisting anyway
About my boyfriend thinking i am dumb Well he would constantly say "I'll teach u" "I'll bring u to my level" "Ur just horrible at it" And today while I was having one on one match with a friend who usually plays badminton in competitions, and i never play badminton usually, my boyfriend kept trying to help me take shots but those shots i could have easily taken and he would miss them He kept doing it out of nowhere and the other guy kept scoring because of it i am not awesome at badminton, but am fairly good to be able at least match the other guy but because of my boyfriend i kept getting interrupted and my points kept being deducted, it wasn't an official match, just casual but he before said "she is surprisingly good" which also made me feel bad. Today, i had a knot in my throat trying to tell him to stop doing that so i could play but he didn't and felt as if he really thinks i am horrible
