Boyfriend can’t take criticism. Am I wrong? (Page 2)

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We got into a fight recently which he made worse. I was annoyed at him and he felt I shouldn’t be annoyed and he was trying to “stand his ground” which made the fight worse.  I ended up sending him a no holes barred text basically saying he needs to grow up his behaviour isn’t normal and I said he is ruining our relationship and I was kind of angry so I said he’s too thick to understand this. And I basically said he’s not a good boyfriend and he needs to improve hugely. Basically I didn’t care if it hurt him he needed to know directly.  Since then he’s been crying since that text but am I wrong? I told him it was a text to make him improve and grow not to take it defensively

shades777 · Answer

I think as a man I want a woman to give criticism like honey, that harder approach is more appropriate coming from a man that has your back.

You come in swinging with the words what you expect to happen?

abc3643 · Answer

Just break up. Both of you are not winners...

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Classic western female, born and bred for conflict, nagging, obnoxious, difficult, and otherwise a pain -in-the-ass to be around.

Keishio · Answer

Without knowing him it's impossible to answer. He could be a bad partner or you could be wanting too much from him

Exterminatore · Answer

Yeah cause insulting someone always makes them hear your point better.

LiamJHayden · Answer

You were annoyed, flamed him, and wonder why he's upset?

Mangospacho · Answer

So…ummm…why do you want to keep seeing this guy anyway?

Heolurt · Answer

Or maybe you gave it in a way no one would take it nicely.

LovrUFFAllls · Answer

It is always healthy to be honest with your partner

Anonymous · Answer

pretend i give a shit a whole minute what was the fight about?

Reem12345reem · Answer

That's a toxic behavior from u tbh

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Well. Make a decision

Anonymous · Answer

I can't either

AliSulayman · Answer

Use silent treatment. It works the best

mommymommymommy · Answer

What was the fight about?

cloud9vortex1234 · Answer

What are you criticizing him for?

Anonymous · Answer

Boys look for trouble.

Boyfriend can’t take criticism. Am I wrong? (Page 2)

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