Why do I see my crush everywhere?

[Anonymous]

so i have a crush on this one guy, and i always somehow manage to see him everywhere. it also only happens every other week or month. normally i would rarely or never see him but whenever i do see him its always in a place or time i usually always go. and on those days when i do see him, i see him more than once. we make eye contact but i'm always the one to break it first. i don't really plan on starting a conversation or smile at him because im afraid it would be weird or awkward. we've also never spoken to each other before which is why i fear it would be weird.

[Hulk_kitty]

The reason you see him every where is cause of your feelings for him, so you are focused on him all the time.

Its like you go out and buy car, example you buy and Audi A3, now you see your type car every where. Whatever you focus on, becomes your library, your subconscious is that powerful, it will find anything you want, that you are focused on.

Change your focus on to something else, and you probably won't notice him at all.

[Hulk_kitty]

Plus feeling have a powerful impact on how you view someone, less say you hate this person, you will never find anything good about this person, you will twist everything this person does a negative. Its the same as love or like with someone, then you see all the positive things about someone.
If you can put your feelings a side towards someone, you will get a clearer picture of what they are really like. Your feelings are not reality about someone is actually like.

[Hulk_kitty]

Plus feeling have a powerful impact on how you view someone, lets say you hate this person ^^

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Yes!