Studies show, guys who send GM texts are also texting 5 other girls. Guys, is this true or false?

[Pinay_ako]

[TheMadLad]

I never gave my ex good morning texts and I don’t cheat.

you do know surveys are bullshit most of the time!

[TheeTrybrid]

Lmaoo

[jshm2]

What big mac meal did those idiots who did the study, get their degrees from?

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 tiktok

[DiegoO]

😆...

[Rosexøxø]

It really is. It means they’re on a schedule and it also means that they need someone out of the many to send him nudes for his morning wood.

He’s a strategic one.

[Pinay_ako]

Very hardworking 🤣

[Rosexøxø]

oh for sure lmao

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

@Rosexøxø Oh he’s just really in love with you and wants your attention

[Rosexøxø]

@DamianTheSmikkelbeer I think I should clarify- if you met him online- Gm text means it’s 9 times out of 10 Routine, especially if he never misses a gm text and somehow makes his way into sexual convo or pic swapping.

If the guy was met irl, and he offers a gm text… and just chats! Then yeah… he likes her… and I’d be suspicious because who wants an early head start on the morning and day for just talking? Unless they planned a day out- hang out, or he just wished her a happy morning, and maybe a quick chat before both continue their day routine.

Online gm texts are bad news.

Friend or meet up guy in person gm texts are sis and should be taken with a grain of salt and watchful eye.

That’s all I have to say.

[Curmudgeon]

@Rosexøxø Sigh. Again, you are falling for the "Apex Fallacy". Sure, for the proverbial "Chads" all the girls want this is the case, but for most of us, not at all,

[Rosexøxø]

@Curmudgeon what do you mean “again?”

It’s not a fallacy- there’s real guys out there. Why would any guy put ANY significance on a •GOOD•MORNING•TEXT• ?

Why do you do it? Do you?

[Rosexøxø]

I’m not saying all men are bad for texting gm and hoping his love of his life helps with nudes and nuts lol but it’s not what the girls were dreaming of.

Let me help my people you help your people-

Instead of trying to help enlighten me when I can see with my own two eyes when a player is playing

Help instruct and guide young men to not copy the bad boy behavior.

You’re not doing me any favors. You’re not doing the reckless boys breaking girls hearts any favors.

Tell them not me. I’m just warning other women the signs and red flags- and like that TikTok video is showing- I’m not the only one.

Stop trying to get a flame off me when you can help out the fire out entirely. Priorities.

If it’s doesn’t matter at all to you, then keep the opinion to self, respectively. Otherwise it’ll do more dmg than good

[Rosexøxø]

But thanks for the attempt

[Curmudgeon]

@Rosexøxø By "again", I had to respond to a lady who lamented that all the men she wants are all pursued and do not answer. And I just had to answer that she was falling for the Apex Fallacy. The vast majority of men on such dating apps get no attention at all, but all the women act as if such men do not exist. They are all hell bent on chasing after the top 1/5/10/20 percent (figures vary), that they ignore all the rest.

[Rosexøxø]

@Curmudgeon mmm I like your whole theory and phenomenon but I don’t fit those percentages (just to clarify) but thanks for the tips everyone needs em! Lol

[Curmudgeon]

@Rosexøxø No problem. I try to give the kind of relationship advice here that I wish someone wiser had told me at like age. Am I all that wise? Not really, I still foul up at times. But I have learned some things just by my having been born sooner, "been there and done that", and aged more.

[Avicenna]

No doubt it's true for lots of guys. We already know women do the same thing.

[Rosexøxø]

ty for your
honesty lol

[OlderAndWiser]

I would like to see the purported source for this statistic. It sounds like a total fabrication.

[Sven090952]

Y’know, everything you see on the internet is true……

[msc545]

agreed

[Genie23]

True in some cases but I don't think most guys would have time to make that of efforts to get a girl. 😅

[Summeroflove]

Well. Sometimes it is but there is another percentage that doesn’t. Some people need NEED attention. So they will get it from as many as possible

[ManOnFire]

Absolutely false. If anything, the guys who send GM texts are the ones who don't cheat because it's the kind of text that a clingy man might send regularly.

[AviatorTom]

I wouldn't know. I've never sent a good morning text.

[Just_call_me_Levi]

Toxic how? People on dating apps in general, that appear very attentive and interested, are usually the ones who take dating far more seriously and want to find the right partner soon. They can double, tripple, quadruple, ..., Their chances by chatting with multiple people.

From observations: It's a man's job to make the lady feel special and safe to be herself, which could be seen as manipulative or misleading, but that's certainly not the intention behind it. Girls wait for that feeling, when the guy makes them feel special and they're don't analyzing the guy, before showing their authentic side. While men usually rock a more "what you see is what you get" approach and be more authentic from day 1. Men care more about not wasting their time, while women care more about making good impressions.

Once you two are officially dating, I know of some girls who finish the chats with the other guys to make sure she's not making the wrong decision, but not heard of a single man who'd continue using the dating app (s) after, unless he's starting to fall out of love. Having said that, my sample pool isn't nearly big enough to conclude this holds true always and everywhere.

As for me personally, until we are officially dating, we are not exclusive. So if you ask me, it'd be weirder to pretend that we are.

[Investigator]

The question being asked is "is a guy who says 'good morning' also flirting with and texting 5 other girls?", but the implied question is "is courtesy a front for playership?"

What would it mean to say that it's false? "No, a guy who says 'good morning' is being mindful of one person and one person only." Conversely, if it's true, then "every guy who is mindful of his partner is just putting on a front of faithfulness and playing the field." My guess is it's somewhere in between. Increasing numbers of men are single and sexless, so that means either they have no prospects or are actively trying to court someone and failing. Therefore, the remaining guys are having most of the success and those are the men to whom this question applies. Certainly, it's not related to the unsuccessful men who are failing to find a mate, short or long-term--that is a given.

Are those men engaging in this behavior? Probably, and why wouldn't they? They have very little competition and know they are in high demand, so really they are working with numbers. It's the difference between a Wall Street day trader at a massive hedge fund, operating large-scale options trades with multiple millions of dollars as leverage, and some random guy on r/wallstreetbets, who fancies himself the next DeepF*ckingValue, trying desperately to "diamond hands" $10k worth of TSLA stock "to the moon", all while the market has largely moved on.

[Red-Blaze]

"Study show..." is always false
Studys may point to an option but it has a lot more to do with it, like where was it asked? who was asked?
I mean did they call out pepole to come in going with "If you date more then one girl at a time we looking for you"
Then ask them if they text GM?

Its always click bait

[Guardian45]

Well said

[UnknownSwede]

Yeah without a source it is pretty unreliable.

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

Perhaps there’s a truth to it because the general assumption is that guys who send a “GM” texts are thinking about you & care about you and so fuckboys and such will use it aswell since women love attention, however i dislike the terming of “men who send good morning texts are 89% more likely to be texting it to 5 other females” because for 1) that literally imposes to and 2) it’s a study that’s from tiktok, very credible whaha.

I think guys on dating-sites and such are probably more likely to do it, yes. But i truly think that the vast majority of guys truly think about you when they send it, especially when they mention your name in it

[D_Bone_Steak]

Not me personally, but my room mate back in the day would literally text 8 different girls some bullshit all at once. He told me it's like a numbers game... a few of them will respond and be interested and then he'll just pick his favorites. The other ones he didn't pick, he will tell them he got sick or some bullshit. The ones that didn't respond will get a guilt trip sent their way about how he missed them all night.

It worked for him. He always had a girl over and he was always banging.

I had my 3 main girlfriends I cycled through and I would just do hookers if they were not available. Playing all those head games with women is just too much work for me. Hookers kept things simple for me. I pay them, I get off, and I'm back to playing video games. Keep it simple.

[Anemone978]

lmao "3 main girlfriend's" lol
Even that seems like too much effort..

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Anemone978 It was a lot of effort, but I was in the middle of a bet with my friend... we had to see who could pull the "hat trick" (banging 3 different girls every day) the longest. Sometimes I'd almost lose and have to pull some bar girl. Hookers didn't count, so we had no easy way out of that challenge. I would get a new girlfriend and just sort of feed her the dream, but you'd be surprised at how many girls have a problem with me banging 2 or 3 other girls in the same day.

Ugh... the struggle was real. I felt like Jimmy in South Park. https://youtu.be/aPnRXw0jAFc

[HawkPerception]

The truth is, everyone who posts "I don't do that" on here could be lying and polls aren't exactly the most accurate source of data either. I believe that nowadays, dating through all these dating apps, most people (not just men) like keeping their options open until they're sure of someone. So it makes sense that some people message 5 girls or guys good morning. I think it's actually okay to do unless you're exclusive. Once you're in an official relationship with a person though, that should all go out the window and you should fully commit.

[Giggles0]

Agree

[Lionman95]

I would say no. Because if a guy sends a good morning text he does so because he thinks of that particular woman at that moment or he has already a personal connection to her. Since I don´t know of many guys that are sending good morning texts.
I´d like to see the study that shows that especially how many guys participated in it.

[Knighted2170]

It is true for some guys.

I was used to do this a lot in my days of not caring who I hurt. Or, who I manipulated. Then, I learned my lesson in a very tragic way.

I now only send a good morning text to the woman whom I have a serious relationship with. If we are just dating, then there no GM texts. Some things just need to be reserved to remain special between the two of us.

[chrissykerdock]

well a guy i was texting everyday i didn't even make his top 5 list when someone asked his 5 favorite girls on gag... otherwise a girl would have no way to know plus it's not like we have a personal relationship with anyone we text on here... there's really no one who impressed me either... which only makes it true how hard it is to find someone.

[DubiousIntentions]

Why not? Don't people on dating sites talk to multiple people? You don't always put all your eggs in one basket. The more people you talk to, the better your chances for success. This goes for both guys and gals. For instance, here are some of the ones I talked to. Too bad their personalities were a little flat in the end.

[abc3643]

What "studies"? I think that's a bunch of horseshit because no entity on Earth would waste money funding a study about males sending "Good Morning" texts.

I think the whole thing is bullshit and that that's a graphic created as a troll.

[Adam1978]

Can't speak for other guys but not true for me. If I am in the state I send regular good morning text, I don't have five other women, I do that too. But I am not the guy that would do that as an habit. Ie send good morning texts. You need to share breakfast with me to get the whole good morning routine.

[Lynx122]

I think it's a weird causality the way this is phrased. I think people who are playing others like to adapt their behavior to be similar to people who are actually genuine. So someone who is trying to hide their true nature is gonna send good morning texts so that when the woman notices some of the bad signs she won't immediately realize what kind of person he is. But it doesn't mean that every guy who says good morning to a woman he likes is trying to play her.