Is it a red flag for the girl to have had a super long term boyfriend?

[kareenakapur]

7 years. or is that ok? Wold a guy feel threatened by the fact you have been w someone that long? what do u think of girls like this who had super long term boyfriend's but now are single.

[TheThingALing]

I'd want to know why y'all broke up
Why he wouldn't give you the ring

But I would take the provides response offered with a grain of salt so really, it just defaults to how you carry yourself long enough so I could formulate my own idea (before any commitment)

[kareenakapur]

his parents didn't want you in their family lol and u were too scared to fight for her. + long distance for 2 of the years

[kareenakapur]

and we started dating super young too young to get married at that time

[TheSpaceGnome]

It's not an issue of feeling threatened, if after 7 years of trying, he didn't work out for you, then he never will, his chance is gone.

The problem is after 3 years of knowing a person (before dating them), you should be 100% sure the person is a match for you.

I don't wanna be dumped 7 years into a relationship because a woman has no clue what she wants. So yes, it's a red flag, but not for the reason you thought.

[kareenakapur]

thats very true like why 7 years and not 3. I understand that. His parents didn't want me in their family lol and he didn't fight for me. 2 years were long distance so trying to deal with that. And then started dating when we were too young to even think about getting married.

[Fireguy17]

Not at all.
I think the vast majority of us have been in a long-term relationship, depending on your age, so no, it wouldn't bother me in the least. Why would someone feel threatened about that?
Pretty much the same as you get older, and someone was married for a long time but then got divorced.
Life happens, we all have a history.

[slatyb]

No, some bad marriages last even longer. That just means the person wasn't emotionally healthy. Now they are out of that bad relationship, and healing.

[Andres77]

It really depends on why the past relationship fell apart. It seems like a good sign that she was dedicated to the relationship but one really has to find out why they broke up and see the evidence.

[weysally]

break ups can happen anytime,

[SnowedIn]

Not s red flag. Means she's stable.

[roy_ricky09]

Nope... It's kinda good thing

[Anonymous]

No, its the exact opposite.

[ariadneR]

Nooooo. Not at all