I don’t even know how to explain this, but I went on a few dates with a co worker (we’ll name him Dave) couple of months ago… we didn’t even get physical, the most was literally peck on the lips after our last date. But it didn’t work out and we are cordial at work. Mind you, I’m really good friends with Dave’s best friends girlfriend, who I also met at work, and recently she told me that when Dave’s buddies came into work, one of his friends saw me and was interested in me. And I’m not gonna lie the mutual attraction is there. Is that okay on my part to be interested or go for it if his friend takes it further and asks me out? Clearly, I wasn’t brought up to the boys by Dave so it feels like it wasn’t serious on his end, but I also really don’t know how this bro code/girl code works if it never got serious between me and Dave. Thoughts?
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It very likely will bother the guy you did date although he may not be willing to admit that. Jealousy is an animal instinct, not a logical reaction, so don’t try to make sense of it. Ask other guys who have some experience and I expect most of them will agree with me.
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I don't see a problem with it. Do you still talk to the first guy? Why did you call it a situationship if you hardly kissed?
Girl do it. Cause if Dave had the opportunity to date any of your friends he would. And don’t think about it being awkward cause it’s not awkward until you make it awkward.
I don’t know what is situationship, don’t understand that term.
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I don't see a problem with it, but the friend should address it with Dave
Kinda confused, but usually ask the friend or ex for permission and they'll usually say it’s fine. Wait til you’re caught and you lose friends.
If it never got serious and Dave is okay with it not getting serious, he won't mind.
Why didn't it work out between you and Dave?
Just do what women do.
Why would you?
Find someone elseSeems pointless to me.
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