So I have this friend who I recently became friends with benefits with although our conversations rarely involve sex. We text good morning and good night and throughout the day. Sometimes she replies immediately and other times I have to wait a few hours for a response. Yesterday she sent me photos of herself in her underwear and I said "wow I can't stop staring" and she said "awe that's sweet 🥺❤️" and she asked for lilacs and a note for the first time we meet (we met online and plan on seeing each other to get to know each other more). We've also called on the phone once and at the end of the call she said "Thank you for calling me, we should do it more often". So now I'm conflicted, does she only see me as a friends with benefits or does she want something more?
Usually girls catch feelings more easily than guys.
And texting is a form of communication for both to know each other better. Through time, such personal space may turn intimate, like some who catch feelings via online dates / chats.
The question now remains: Are you interested in her more than just friends with benefits? If yes, get more intimate in your chats (need not become sexts). Who knows you and her may change your friends with benefits to committed?
PS: But don't put your hopes high yet. Many are good at expressing themselves without getting feelings simply to have better sex.
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Texting is a dead-end. You can't forge a relationship with texting.
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