Any advice for loving a loner/ recluse guy who needs a lot of alone time and how to text right and make it work between us?

[Anonymous]

[FrioMan]

If he was really interested, he would put in the time with u. Believe me, being alone is not all that. But that's just me.. I know me 100% and it would put in the effort to know someone who obviously is into me.. id say , be blunt and honest on what u want from this relationship and or friendship and take it from there. Please dnt waste ur time and listen to ur intuition and gut.

[slatyb]

Don't worry about "how to text right". Don't walk on eggshells for anyone. What do you want from him? Ask for that. What does he want? Do you know? "Alone time" doesn't have to mean physically separate.

[coachTanthony]

Why women don't build more houses is beyond me because they love trying to fix men.

[Billlewis]

What kind of relationship are you having with him? Is he subservient to you, and will you allow him to have intercourse with you?

[Asker]

Well rn he’s working on work and paying bills I know he’s a loner kinda guy hates when I text a lot so I’m not doing that we are friends but there’s attraction and what not

[Billlewis]

How far away does he live from you? If he's not real swift with texting, etc (guys older than fifty mostly hate that shit -- I refuse to do it, and I refuse to own a smart phone), you may find it necessary to just talk to him on the phone, instead of texting.

[Billlewis]

Other than that, I'm sure you're becoming familiar with what gets him going, whether it's tease and denial, cuckoldry, or just regular sex.

[Asker]

I know he doesn't like audio we text not a lot as of recent cause again he's working and is busy he's a recovering alchoic been out of AA program which he started in October

[Billlewis]

I see. It sounds like you've got the beginnings of a potentially productive relationship. You keep him turned on, he spoils you, etc. I like it:)

[Anonymous]

Good luck with that one. I would never get involved with a woman like that.

[Anonymous]

I am a guy like that.

[Asker]

Well at least you cam relate to him do you have advice for me on how to go about him he's been working on himself , work and bills finished AA program so that's where his focus is. Been trying to give him respect and not cause him stress with texting. But yeah any advice would help if you have any

[Opinion Owner]

You have to pamper him because he's probably so focused on work he will forget to relax. So just paying attention and tell him when to relax is a good idea.

I tend to forget about self care and to just kick it back and not take myself so seriously a lot of times.

[Opinion Owner]

Like just tell him when to take breather.