Do you agree that a man who is capable of having many sex partners with women is a special man?

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Seems like a fact to me.

Women have standards that us men do not have.

When a man meets those standards for many women, he is doing something right.

A man who has a lot of sex is always seen as better than a man who is not able to have sex.

The key defining characteristic is ability. Voluntary celibacy is not the same as involuntary obviously. It's about ability, not choice.

The ABILITY for a man to get with many women makes him better than other men.

And this is the way society sees men. Our value is determined by the number and quality (beauty) of the women he has the option to obtain.

It doesn't mean he goes around having tons of sex.

But he CAN.

And this man is always superior to any man who does not have those options.

RespectfulGuy · Accepted Answer

Definitely not.

Special is subjective.

But in general, the few attractive attributes are financially rich, great or handsome physical appearance, a pleasant personality and a person of great principle.

While not implying all women are gold diggers, a person of wealth tends to get girls easily. It's practical even for a girl contemplating marriage to get a guy who has a career and savings. This is not really special, but basic requirement.

And first attraction is always the key to start a conversation that may lead to a relationship. Hence perhaps it's "special" of him to be born model like.

And so far can that special appearance go. To enter commitment, usually a beautiful personality is required. This can be acquired. Not special until manifested in the presence of suitors.

And a person of principle. It's greater than mere pleasant personalities in good days. It's manifested in days of dispute and argument. And again, it's something that a person can acquire. And is appealing to the partner and saves a relationship.

Do you regard these as special? Perhaps they can. But they can be taught, learned and acquired. And they surpassed being born special with physical beauties.

Hence I disagree. We don't need to be special to win women's hearts. We need to meet what she really wants to win her.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No. I don't believe that makes any man special. That may be how society perceives him but I disagree. A man that is able to have the discipline to no longer be controlled by lust, his desires, the flesh, other women... and that is following the path of God and remembering the path of ascension is what I consider special. Society is mostly on the path of debauchery and has been corrupted by Satan. Therefore what the majority see as good is often the opposite.

But a lot of the women in the comments that say the man is a skank will still find him more attractive than the man I described above. But that's simply because such a man will need to find a woman on that same path. Satan corrupts desire to take you away from that path and he's doing an excellent job of it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No I don’t agree. Rationalizing bad behavior and the number of sex partners a man can have is no measure of a man. He’s a skank.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

What makes a guy special cannot be "fact". What is special and isn't special is subjective. And you're wrong.

Anonymous · Answer

Special? Like in retarded? It don't take much talent to sleep with women. If you're not successful you just start at the ugly ones and work your way up. Michael Jordan wasn't born dunking a basketball. Not everyone is going to hit a homeowner his first at bat. That doesn't mean you can't build yourself into a good hitter. Any guy can learn this.

Yodaaa · Answer

I don't mind my man having multiple sex partners honestly but in exchange for that i expect respect and as his wife he'll always come back to me

Anonymous · Answer

LMAO!

Do you agree that a man who is capable of having many sex partners with women is a special man?

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