Should I add anything else?

[HappyWoman34]

I’m making home made muesli bars for the guy I’ve started seeing and buying a birthday card. Should I add another gift, like a painting that I bought from work? The Salvation Army store? Or are the muesli bars enough? We’re having our second date next weekend. He’s really lovely and treats me to everything. Insists on it.

[8UniquelyBoring8]

It's great that you want to do something thoughtful for your date's birthday. While homemade muesli bars and a birthday card are already a thoughtful gesture, adding another gift may depend on your personal preference and your level of comfort with the relationship. If you feel like adding the painting will be a nice touch and is something that your date would appreciate and enjoy, then go for it. Otherwise, the muesli bars and card should suffice. Remember, it's the thought that counts, not the amount of gifts you give.

[ShesRad80]

i think the bars and the card are enough, you handmade the bars, that says a lot and that you appreciate him

[Vikkrram]

You know if a girl i am dating she would just even wish a Happy birthday to me would be enough for me. I don't want anything any gifts from her. Just be loyal and share everything you wanna share. That's enough and here you are doin so much respect for you ma'am

[SnowedIn]

What you're doing is just right. The painting would be very awkward.

[SnowedIn]

Thanks for mho!

[chicken_nugget24]

Aww that's so nice 🥰

[HappyWoman34]

Thanks 😊

[Anonymous]

No, what you've done is enough.