we have been in relationship for 15 days only. and he demands nudes. he get angry bc i don't send it to him. he says that other girls could have given him sex after this much time and that i am weird. then he blocked me and now again unblocked. why? he has done it before and started cursing and said that i am heartless. what to do now?
This guy is a complete piece of trash. If you've only been in a relationship for 15 days it's a bit soon to say he's your boyfriend, anyway. (You may have known him a while, I get it.) But a boyfriend who is decent would never behave like this.
I suspect he only agreed to be your boyfriend to coax you into sexual stuff. He's used to getting what he wants online; or asking incessantly until he does, or finally finds some who will. He'll keep doing this with other girls, while he's with you.
He's disgusting, selfish, immature, and a brat. Drop him. I don't usually forcefully tell others how to live with lives, but you're young, and I'm trying to spare you the wasted time on trash like this. Plus, he will turn your sour against good guys, who will have to pay the price for your experiences with this guy. It's really not good for any of you. You deserve better people than this in your life. At your age, every guy will want nudes, pretty much. But it's their right of passage to ask. It is not your requirement to give in to what they will ask. Respect yourself, honour yourself first. You have to live with yourself for the rest of your life. They don't.
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I would block this guy and dump him. He doesn't seem to be a very good catch. If you had to choose between him and having the clap, you should take the clap.
The girl i like, and who likes me back, we're not really in a "relationship", though, we've known each other for 10 years. i recently told her how i felt, and we kissed for the first time. But, I'm not really sure what we are. I'm a virgin. I want her to take my virginity. I've never asked her for nudes, nor have i ever asked any girl for nudes. It's not ok. If she wants to send a nude, she'll do it but DO NOT ASK, GUYS!
I can't believe we kissed for the first time, after 10 years, on Monday night
15 days does not make a boyfriend. He's a guy who is looking to have sex with you... and probably lots of other girls. Forget about him and find someone who will treat you the way you deserve.
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Is this your actual boyfriend or just some idiot you talk to online? The guy is trash. This is what happens when you don't even know a guy and think he's your boyfriend.
bruh dump his stupid ass, like you aren't doing his ass a favor by going out with him, if he's that desperate for nudes then he got no game, you dont have to send him shit if you dont want too, he a sorry ass mf no lie 😂
Never send something you do not want your parents or future children to see. He will be tempted to post your pictures online because guys like showing off their girls' bodies.
The internet is forever. Before the internet, this would not happen.
You need to run away from someone like this. He is trying to control you. He does not honor your feelings. This is a BIG RED FLAG.
Just 15 days and this guy wants nude. Breakup is the only option i would say. This guy only wants sex from you
He clearly isn't respecting your boundaries. Good thing you found this out early and only wasted 15 days.
Wow. You dodged a bullet. My advice - do not unblock him and move on. If he really think other girls could have given him sex after this time, why is he so upset with you?
Sounds like a whole lot of drama for high school...
Uh, with only 15 days invested in this relationship this is an excellent time to just move on.
Forget about him, he is not worth the trouble.
He doesn't care about you, but only about what he can get from you. You can do better.
Let's have some sense here. Does any of this sound good to you?
What in the toxicity is happening here
He's obnoxious. Forget him.
You both shouldn't be dating.
He did you a huge favor.
ask him. We have no idea.
He isn't worth your time
You need a new boyfriend
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