We will match, and I think the guy should make the first step by writing to the girl first.. the guy should pursue her if she's interested...
But a very very very large amount of men do not make the first move, why? Is it because you aren't interested? If you're playing games then you aren't interested...
So is that right? They are all online daily for hours by the way... but will take 5+ days to write to me first if not never.
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Do you write to guys you match? When I was using the apps I matched to lots of people.
How many people did you match with in how long?
To answer your question, I do write to them, but first I wait for them to make a move...
There's that one guy who liked me first, then I liked him back.. It took 5 days for him to finally write to me.. we exchanged # but he left me on read in texts... so I assumed he lost intrest.. I deleted my dating account, but then made a new one and to my surprise, he liked me again? So I liked him again, we matched and he wouldn't write to me first.. after 5 days I decided to do it because he's the only match I actually liked.. out of my 25 match, he's the only one.. but every time I talk about meeting he vanishes... leaves me on read... why?
When I started the apps matching was like 10 a day. Then it got less as I was active on it.
That guy clearly wasn’t actually using the app to find a date
Why was he the only one you liked?
I have more of an attraction to him...
I actually wrote to him again and said "if you aren't attracted to me this why you don't want to meet its fine ^.^ no bad feelings between us.. I'm sure you have a ton of girls all over you "
He replied " no I am attracted to you! And I do want to meet you.. I just need time "
The last time a guy needed time to meet me was because he had a girlfriend at home... so he couldn't leave whenever..
Am I wrong? Why else? Even If he just wanted to hookup, he would still meet me !
What do you think?
Oh also, when I had my first account, he really hesitated to give me his phone # ... I told him that I think he is scared to give it cz he got a girlfriend... he did end up giving it to me.. but seems to not like using it with me... he says he is single...
Just weird
He also said he was using the dating app on his second phone.. second phone? I told him cz you got a girl? He kept denying it..
He has a girlfriend or he is dating other people
If i intrested in her then i will take first move... i don't have ego I'm mature.
you're ugly