For an example, I’ve been with my boyfriend for years now and until he met his friends he never said the N word. It bothers me and iv told him to stop saying it, but he just tells me not to tell him what to do. It’s such a turn off and not like how he used to be. What would you do
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His excuse is because his friends give him permission and he’s not saying it in a racist way.
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I would break up with someone for saying the N word 100% . It shows someone is classless and shows lack of intellect.
Exactly, it’s made me see him differently! I think I just don’t know how to end it since iv been with him so long and never heard him speak like that. I appreciate the opinion
Maybe try to talk to him about it first. Ask him if he even notices how often he says it and ask him why. If he try’s to even rationalize it, I’d just end it there
Omg I didn’t meant to update the question. I thought I was replying to you 🥲
All good lol but yeah there’s still no excuse. He’s acting arrogant. Then he will get used to saying it and then say it in public where others don’t accept it, and if you are with him you are going to have to deal with the back lash. This would be a deal break for me
That’s exactly what I’m afraid of. I know he’s a really good guy but hearing that come out of his mouth just ruins things. I guess I just need to find the balls to end it 🥺 it’s like the hardest thing ever
Dump them and never look back. He pretended to be a nice person until he decided that he didn't need to anymore. He's not a nice person. Knowing what you now know about him, would you choose him? No? Then it's time to leave and meet someone you will be proud to be with.
If you ever find yourself apologizing for your partner, stop doing that and get the hell out.
Thank you !
Lol dump him and start seeing a white women 😒.
They won't ever do racist things so warm and caring! Go bi and if he asks tell him that his racist ass can't understand
I am bi 🤭💗
So am I and I did the same my ex is still stunned what I did.
Now I'm single again! Way happier!
How would you like to break up with him? 💜