Girls would you date a guy who has bad temper? Why?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

Other

[virtualwasp]

probably, doesn't sound like you are bad, we all get annoyed and show it in different ways. i rant or if its really bad ill cry. You said you are a kind person 🧡

[Asker]

Yes, I am a kind person. I am a harmless guy. My mom, sister and friends said to me, " You are a great guy but you must try to control your anger ".
May be I get angry quickly bcoz I am single and sexually frustrated. Some of my friends told me to find a girl, it will reduce your anger.🧡 Is it true?

[KatherineJ]

I wouldn’t have ruled it out. We all have tempers. It’s how someone handles their temper that would have made him a yes or no as a potential boyfriend.

[sheenagwapa]

yes if he doesn't hurt me physically or verbally abusive... there's a line of which i can tolerate or which i cannot tolerate. i'm a happy patient oerson in general my ex has bad temper always but i am just cool with it no big deal. i don't ever get scared of him. i find it odd of women gettinh scared of their husband yoy are JUST my husband. yoy do not own me nor created me. i think they're scared because they happen to have boyfriend or spouses whi are evil who would physically and emotionally hurt them. no different from meetinh evil strangers.

[Asker]

I understand. I am a harmless guy. My mom, sister and friends said to me, " you are a great guy but you must try to control your anger".

[Jemini_Crocket]

I have and I would. It's better than someone overly passive. I myself am mild tempered, I'd prefer someone like me or similar.

[Asker]

Thanks; ) I am a nice kind hearted guy but I have a bad temper. What should I do?

[Alli39]

No, bad temper means that conflicts are likely to escalate quickly and needlessly. I have an anxiety disorder and being in that situation regularly that could really screw with me. But even if I didn't, I don't really want to be around someone who gets mad easily. It's unpleasant and makes them more difficult to trust in terms of emotional support.

[ARWINGx1]

I get the feeling that I may have such an issue. Though it's mainly 'cause my parents simply force me to bottle it in. And in turn, can let it out at the wrong time (s) & at the wrong people.

I mean, they tend "forbid" me to show any negative emotions. But doesn't do anything to prevent that. As if, say, there is no such thing as "provocation". ... if you know what I mean?

[sunflower00]

Tbh no.


Scary and can often lead to abuse whether that be physical or verbal.


I want to feel safe in a relationship and honestly wouldn’t feel so with someone with a bad temper.


I would maybe consider it if they were actively trying to get help like anger management

[jwmiller95]

You're asking "would you date a red flag"? Of course not. Look at it from a woman's perspective. Don't advertise yourself as someone with a bad attitude. If it hinders your ability to have a healthy relationship, work hard on being the best self you can be and this won't be an issue for you. Look for things that trigger you. Nothing is worth losing control over. It's easy for women to pick from the litter of men but as a man we are very limited what we can catch so make the most of it

[haiuyu]

I might at first, but in the long run, if he keeps getting angry at the smallest things, it might get more complicated.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

I think it’s hot if he directs it the right way not at me of course

[Totsnotcassie]

I probably would just as long as he doesn’t harm me.

[Asker]

Thanks; ) I am a nice kind hearted guy but I have a bad temper. What should I do?

[Asker]

I am a harmless guy. I never had a big fight and I am good at avoiding conflicts.

[Totsnotcassie]

Perfect

[Tarrenniki]

It depends on the guy, if I really love him and care for him then yes I probably date him, but in general I seriously don't even look at 'em, my law says, if you are a dick to me then I'm the dickest dick to you.

And seriously, if you can't control your self, how can you have a good relationship?

I suggest you with all respect, use some therapy it helps, had a friend with the same issue and therapy really helped him.

Good luck❤

[Claudia233]

No way. It doesn't matter if he's actually harmless. Feelings are contagious. If he is happy, I am happy. If he is angry, I am angry. It would be too frustating.

[marrk]

I never would. I would wish them the best and hope they go to therapy. I would be their friend, but not be in a romantic relationship with them.

[Anemone978]

No I don't like to be around people who get mad quickly they tend to annoying and mood killers.

[mandyfire98]

No because I want to be with people who aren't immature. That level of emotional immaturity I can't deal with. Be an adult, don't throw baby tantrums.

[thatshydork]

Depends on what the bad temper is directed at. If it’s directed at me, then hell no.

[YesterdaysChild]

It's usually a precursor to physical abuse. It's a red flag and deal breaker for me.

[FreyaRed]

No. Men without impulse control are embarrassing

[Apple1996]

Nah I'm to chill for that. Can't deal with a angry partner

[HeartFullOfGlue]

I specifically stay away from men with a bad temper

[Anonymous]

No. I like sweet guys. I like guys that always smile. Gentlemen.

I wouldn't be able to stand a guy that couldn't control his temper.