Guys, I threw myself a mini pity party in front of my super high standards boyfriend. His response? “That sucks.” How do I come back from that?

[SheDoc420]

I had a pretty rough week, and I’m really stressed about my student loan payments and board exam. I tried to put it out there as rationally as I could, but still. “That sucks.” I ran out of the room before he could see me cry. I have to be on point all the time with this one. Yeah, it’s good for me, but I’m not naturally like that. It takes a lot of effort. I know guys want this hard-to-get, emotionless chick with lots of confidence, no insecurities, who never makes bad decisions but news flash… no woman is like that. They’re just white knuckling it all the way and exploding to their friends and family when they’re not around you.

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My thoughts are to not apologize, act like it never happened, and continue on with my witty banter as usual. And hope to Jesus that he didn’t see or hear about the worst of it.

[Lokiion]

You don’t need to be emotionless in my opinion but you can’t get emotional after little things not saying student loans is a little thing anyways that just his personality and probably how he grew up anyways to handle this best would be just to talk to him about your problems

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Just ignore it and move on, he probably already forgot, guys are used to women emotional nature.

[Christoff92]

You want to comfort yourself due of stress. But shouldn't encounter what others think. Basically do what makes you feel good 😀

[Iron_Man]

That’s no big deal he should be helping you out being there for you

[In_Trance]

You're too old for this drama