Why would a guy block me if I apologize to him for hurting his feelings? Why wouldn't he accept my apology instead? It's feeling like a lesson to me? (Page 2)
It is a lesson to you. You're not entitled to have your apology accepted by anyone ever in life. If you're shite to people they don't want anything to do with you anymore. Welcome to adulthood.
You need counseling. I hurt someone's feelings, apologized to them and they blocked me. Now, I'm not going to apologize to anyone, ever. You sound like a four year old after having a toy taken away when you threw a temper tantrum.
How you act is a reflection on you. To apologize for being wrong is a sign of character. How others act is a reflection on them, how they respond to your apology is theirs.
just because someone accepts your appology does not mean they still accept you, that you are forgiven, nor does it absolve you of having to pay a price (some form of punishment) and accountability.
Some people are just really vengeful... I'm not sure what causes it, but it sucks to be on the receiving end of.
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Oh please don't blame your own bullshit on the opposite sex, take some accountability and responsibility. Just because you said you're sorry doesn'tena he has to take it. Smh.
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So should I stop apologizing to others too even if I hurt them and keep moving forward like an apology doesn't matter? I hope it's right
No. It means that those who you apologize to are under no requirement to accept them. Apologies are more for you not the person you hurt. Failing to do that shows no emotional growth and shows how worthless you truly are.
I am looking for true love. But most of the girls were rude and abusive online. I am losing my faith in humanity, girls and love. It's a cruel and bad world. I don't want to be kind anymore.
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You said sorry. You did your part. Now it is up to him. He has the choice to accept and talk to you again or accept and leave or not accept and leave.
So it is his choice and you have to accept it... it is his life.
You don't get to pick and choose someone's response to you?
This question shows immediately why you should be blocked frankly.
Some People are Naturally Grudge Bearers at Heart. Move On, sweetie. xxoo
It is a lesson to you. You're not entitled to have your apology accepted by anyone ever in life. If you're shite to people they don't want anything to do with you anymore. Welcome to adulthood.
You need counseling. I hurt someone's feelings, apologized to them and they blocked me. Now, I'm not going to apologize to anyone, ever. You sound like a four year old after having a toy taken away when you threw a temper tantrum.
because fk youuuuuuu.
Which is his mindset, you done hurt him and now wants nothing to do with you
If you hurt someone they do not owe you anything. Even if you apologize, they still don't owe you anything.
Should I learn a lesson to stop apologising to others further?
How you act is a reflection on you. To apologize for being wrong is a sign of character. How others act is a reflection on them, how they respond to your apology is theirs.
just because someone accepts your appology does not mean they still accept you, that you are forgiven, nor does it absolve you of having to pay a price (some form of punishment) and accountability.
Obviously he doesn't forgive you. He doesn't have to either.
Some people are just really vengeful... I'm not sure what causes it, but it sucks to be on the receiving end of.
Oh please don't blame your own bullshit on the opposite sex, take some accountability and responsibility. Just because you said you're sorry doesn'tena he has to take it. Smh.
So should I stop apologizing to others too even if I hurt them and keep moving forward like an apology doesn't matter? I hope it's right
No. It means that those who you apologize to are under no requirement to accept them. Apologies are more for you not the person you hurt. Failing to do that shows no emotional growth and shows how worthless you truly are.
I am looking for true love. But most of the girls were rude and abusive online. I am losing my faith in humanity, girls and love. It's a cruel and bad world. I don't want to be kind anymore.
*I blocked all of them.
Why would he want someone around that he doesn’t want to talk to anymore?
Why he doesn't want to talk anymore?
Because your his ex and he moving on with life doesn’t really make sense to keep talking to someone you had a failed relationship with
Because you're not entitled to feeling better.
You fucked up, "I'm sorry" doesn't fix that.
It's probably not the first time you shit on him and he's done simping for you.
You have no idea how to process emotions in a healthy way go to therapy.
He wasn't ready to accept your apology, some people won't care them.
Because there's nothing to say.😆 Just move on.
He didn't think your apology was enough.
Hurt his feeling how?
Insulted him before everyone