Is it possible to just "know"?

[Anonymous]

I've been dating this guy for a few months. And he's easily the best person I've ever dated.

I'm 28, I've dated a lot, and been in a few longer term relationships where I felt confused the entire time.

This guy has already managed to give me a sense of peace I've never experienced before, and make me feel so loved (in a non love bombing way). We hit it off instantly. He called ME his girlfriend first and posted pics with me, talked about me to his family and friends.

I'm not used to any of this.

He's already hinted at future plans. He may end up working out of the country temporarily in a couple years and already dropped the idea of me coming.

I really don't see any red flags yet, and I sure have been looking for them.

Is it really possible I've found "the one" after all this time? I guess I just feel in my gut this will last and I've yet to experience that with anyone else.

Has anyone else just *known* when it was meant to be?

[ProbablyClueless]

I'm not married, but from what I've been told by many elders (when I worked in a nursing home); it sounds like you DO just "know."

It seems like you meet someone one day and everything just kind of makes sense, and you decide that that person is who you're going to make something happen with.

[RyanK9b]

You can't be sure. He can be the great guy but after a couple of months/years it can change for you or him.

You should go for it. You're almost out of your prime years and he's definitely something good/exceptional to you.

[Wonderingguyy]

I definitely feel that “knowing” with my girlfriend. So yeah I’d say it’s possible