My guy friend and I are so close.. we go through periods where we get really close and then he kinda fades away and then comes back. Anyway we are so close he’ll call me 15 times a day and we will talk for hours at night and we laugh all time etc. we have same sense of humor and stuff. He does this thing where he pulls away after we are really close and I’m not sure why. He admitted when we were first friends that he liked me and then I think he got annoyed I didn’t want him back in that way so he pulled away and then I chased him and tried to say I’d give it a shot bc I didn’t want to lose him and then he told me the ship has sailed. Anyway that was over a year now and we have been close again few times since including recently. For months we talk all day throughout day. He just started pulling away again and I miss him. I just want to call him and talk but the more I try the more he ignores. Sometimes I wonder if I’m in love. But is that possible bc I know I’m not physically attracted to him. I’ve tried to but I can’t.
Look , a persons behaviour, ettiquetes , manners , sense of humor would attracts you to them but i would say there will be a point where obviously one would easily get attracted to physically.