Whats the dumbest excuse a girl made to flake on you?

[Anonymous]

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I believe I once did something like this. After break up I dated a nice guy, who unfortunately didn’t fully fit my taste and at that time I was too preoccupied with break up pain to think deeply about it.


I dates him for 2 months and he even told me he loved me and wanted us to be in a relationship (which I don’t believe. How can you love someone in 5-6 dates?)


Regardless…


I took him on dances.


We danced and we didn’t rhyme at all. My body had a different rhythm and his body had a different rhythm. At that time I knew there was no way to be attracted to him, I was a bit tipsy and told him “we can’t work it out” because I like girls…


He knew pretty well, I was hardcore heterosexual.


But yeah… I didn’t want to hurt him and tell him that it’s him that wasn’t my type.


He blocked me later on and I think I deserved it…


He was a nice guy, but met me at a wrong time.


I would be more understanding and forgiving have I had him now rather than 6 months ago. I can’t promise I’d be attracted to him, because at that time I compared everyone to my ex and everyone seemed unattractive compared to his ideal, sexy image. But yeah. That guy was decent l. I was a but too rough on him.


I could have handled it better.


I am at least glad, I didn’t make him lose any more time and told him directly that we couldn’t work out. He was nice, handsome in a way, successful, young and rich, some girls would take advantage of that. I didn’t. That comforts me and makes me feel leas guilty. I hope he will find someone who’ll appreciate him the way he is.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

It was cute when he told me he loved me. He told me he loved me when he crashed his brand new Ferrari on a date with me and I helped him out and stayed with him and supported him.

I just think he was thankful and didn’t mean loving me.

I am not so easily lovable.

But yes, thankfully the car was insured and he did get if back as fresh as a new.

I would feel bad that I caused him a car crash and then even broke his heart.

I still do feel guilty, but I am happy that I hurt him earlier than later and I tried to hurt him as less as possible.

I just didn’t feel attraction… It wouldn’t be fair if I stayed with him.

I didn’t want him as crazily as I wanted my ex. And my heart could not fully be his. We weren’t a good match.

But he was a wonderful person I think.

[provokeesmokee]

They were never really flimsy excuses: she got COVID and then she started a new job.

However, I was also going through a lot including a move and some high profile projects. Then some major bad shit happened and I was managing that while also seeing her.

It became clear she wasn't going to make time for me despite me making time for her. I called it off shortly after I realized that.

[exitseven]

Okay, I made a date with this girl and before the date I drove by where she worked so I could give her a ride home because she did not own a car/. I went inside and was told that she had already left. I drove to her house and she was not there and her mother invited me inside to wait. About an hour later the phone rings and it was her. She told me she was still at work and that a cash register fell off the counter and everybody had to stay late to clean up the mess. I did not want to tell her that I knew she was lying to me because her mother was standing right next to me.

[Kabluie]

I told a girl I had to fly home because of a recent close family death and couldn't see her that weekend, but can when I get back. This was just few days after our first date which ended in sex. She was initially interested in 2nd date, but she didn't believe me. Win some, lose some

I didn't really give any indication there was any family woes going on and I'm sure she's been stood up like that before. I didn't push the issue as I had a date down there too.

[OlderAndWiser]

""I'd love to go out with you Friday night but that's the night I wash my hair!"

[Asker]

I would love to go out Friday night, but thats the time i wash my scrotum

[Static_In_The_Attic]

If I receive the following message I would have the perfect come back for it as well.
“I’d love to go out with you Friday night but that's the night I wash my hair!"
Washing your pubic hair is a great idea you kind of smelled like fish.

[ShellyB]

I told a guy one time I could not go out because I had to sort my socks. I DID have to sort my socks, obv. that wasn't a reason not to go out, it was just all I could think of at the moment. To turn the question around a little I am not sure guys always realize they are putting us on the spot much moreso than they are put on the spot in these situations, and when you are put on the spot, you might not come up with the very best thing to say! JMO.

[ShellyB]

by the way that was an excuse I used to turn down a date, not to flake on a date.

[Billlewis]

That is so awesome! I love it!

[petitedollbabee]

We went on a date at a bar, went back to my place after, then she said that her brother had texted her and said that he needed her to come pick him up from town, so she said she would be back after doing that. She never came back, and she blocked me when she left.

[serious]

Never dated in my life so nothing like that ever happened.

[Asker]

Ask a girl on a date, thats what i did and she said yes

[serious]

@zachgoat308

The fact is I don't want to and such situation won't arise.

[serious]

@zachgoat308

Just to clear things, it is not my ego or pride. The fact I wish to remain single so asking a woman on a date or doing anything that is opposite to my wish/thinking will be leading the woman on and to me that is very wrong, disrespectful and highly inappropriate, unethical also.

[Billlewis]

I've had the 'sick relative' excuse used on me numerous times.

[inhua]

do you know what happens to candidates who miss out on their job interview?

[RoseySaraah]

Hey no excuse just don't like you that way!

[Asker]

you mean they said that to you?

[RoseySaraah]

3 boys have
Like I so prefer friends before relationships but it ends badly for me