Why would a girl try to get a reaction out of you?

[Anonymous]

There’s this girl that I’ve clicked with and I’ve tried playing it cool with her and she’s suddenly acting weird and trying to make me jealous and get a reaction out of me and I don’t know why? Everything had been going well and I always make her laugh, we’re both attracted to each other but now it feels weird. She seems frustrated with me sometimes then other times fine.

[devilish-cutie]

maybe she was trying to figure out if you like her or she wants you to make obvious move on her

[Asker]

Oh ok yeah maybe she is trying to figure out if I like her haha. I do have my poker face on usually.
It’s weird though if she wants to know if I like her or not why doesn’t she say something instead of confusing me trying to make me jealous. And what’s with her being frustrated with me is it because she’s frustrated she can’t tell I like her?

[devilish-cutie]

well she won't ask you straight out as that would be like her saying straight out she likes you while you can reject her as she has dubts about your interest. Being to direct is also can may people feel on the spot andthey can get panicky and want to run away
Girl being frustrated with you usually means she is not happy about something you do so its most likely she wants you to make some obvous move on her and show her you like her. Id do it as soon as you can, as her being very frustrated may make her give up on the whole thing. But dont worry majorly, she will still like you but may put harder front. So just be nice to her and you can show her you are interested in little things. Ask her to hang out casually just the two of you.

[Asker]

Ok thanks I’ll try make a move on her. I just haven’t known her for long so I don’t want to take it fast and I’m not sure if she likes me, I have a feeling she does but really don’t know. I don’t want her to move on and not be interested anymore because I like her a lot. I meant why doesn’t she say something casually not ask me out or anything but something like if there’s girls I’m interested in etc but yeah that could still reveal her feelings I guess if she did.

[devilish-cutie]

yeah, of course, its important for you to protect your own feelings too and not be made out a fool as there are plenty of people that dont know what they want or only want attention. Thats why love is such a hassle but if you really like her than its worth it even if it doesn't work out. You try your best and see. Good luck! :)