Dating

I called things off because of his slow replies and lack of planning. Was I too hard on him?

I met this guy on a dating app, we consistently talked almost everyday for about two weeks when he started saying we should go on a date. I planned a date for us and he seemed really excited about it, offering to pick me up and make it a whole day thing, but day of he texted me early in the morning saying he was sick and that if we was better by night we could do something. I never got a response until 5pm the next day though. He said he was sick so I didn’t think much of it, although he started becoming less available and would respond at 3 or 6am sometimes. We kept talking and he asked if I was free anytime throughout the next week. I told him Thursday or Friday or the weekend and he said maybe Friday. Friday came around, again I didn’t hear from him. So I asked if he still wanted to meet up at 9pm. 4pm rolled around the next day, still no response, so I told him he seemed busy and not all that interested so, basically, never mind. He told me he was just really busy and would probably be getting busier soon. We talked and had great banter for a total of almost a month, but anytime we talked about real plans he didn’t make a huge effort to plan anything. Did he just lose interest? He said he loved talking to me and we had a whole bunch of things we said we’d want to do together. Am I being too hard on him calling things off?

I called things off because of his slow replies and lack of planning. Was I too hard on him?
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