What is your opinion that I did not date because I will not get into a long term relationship but I want to have a get into a long term relationship?

[SeaStorm1]

If I didn't date how am I going to enter into a long term relationship i will not enter into a long term relationship if I didn't date. I had a bad experience with dating and relationships with my previous ex boyfriend and took a break and nothing seemed to work. I hate being single and don't want to get back into my old life. Some boys are only looking for sex and are on a dating app called Meetme, which is one of the worst dating apps. I deleted and removed my profile. I did also block these guys that i never wanted to message them and always sexually messaged some men. If i didn't date i will just stay single and that is something I don't want. However, I do get into a long term relationship and dating is part of that process of being in a long term relationship. Yep, I know that dating is can be trash and is can hit and misses. What is your opinion that I did not date because I will not get into a long term relationship but I would like to have a get into a long term relationship?

[Stoner710]

I think you’re going to have end up miserable and alone. You want to have that long term relationship. You’re not a guy you want kids you want to have the perfect guy. The what I call the 666 guy 6 figure income 6 pack Abs and 6 foot dating apps are shit so stay off of them. I doubt you’re then have a girl that was on hold for mechanic or a plumber or a guy that’s under 6 foot and then make a six figure income a year. I think you have a time clock your most valuable now at 25 I think you need to settle for a guy who isn’t the 1% of the 1% of the 1% of the 1% if I’m wrong please pleas let me know. I think you need to change your perspective on life and guys in general. My value increases the older I get, why because I make more money I can provide for you yet I’m not the 6 foot 6 figure 6 pack guy, But I guarantee you I’ll treat you better than any guy Who’s in the top 1% of the 1% of the 1% why 1) because I will and guys like me will treat you like you want to be treated we ask 3 simple thing 1 have kids 2 make dinner 3 keep the house clean. (Oh and 4 stay loyal) beyond that it’s not hard. You’re not a superstar your not someone to simp for your a 25 year old women who is young and I am assuming beautiful. You as a women are the gate keepers to sex we as men are the gate to be opened don’t open those gates

[SeaStorm1]

@Stoner710 you also wrong i never once has sex at all witl any ex boyfriend , two i made another qestion about avoiding cheaters and players. i don't get attracted to guys that were too good looking or hot. short guys can also be just be player and good looking from that i met through online dating apps. two i can't even have kids since i got genetic condition and is 18-p. i'm some men online sent beautiful and other say hot. i saw cute and beautiful the most on online dating.

[Stoner710]

Do you want kids

[SeaStorm1]

i do want kids but i alos as same don't want to have since they wil get my genetic condition that are in my DNA in my eggs.

[Stoner710]

If you want kids have kids regardless of genetics. Don’t give up on dating if you want to avoid the players go to church I would recommend Catholic DON’T GO ON DATING APPS that’s where the players are.

Also remember you are the gate keeper to sex until that ring is on your figure don’t sleep with a guy you’re dating. Yes be a prude. If the guy dumps you because you won’t sleep with him that’s not the guy you want to be with.

[SeaStorm1]

again i can't even have kids since my genitic disosor they makes them sick and will be die.

[SeaStorm1]

genetic disorder meant

[Stoner710]

Oh it’s an actual disorder make sense. I thought you were just saying your genetics are bad so you don’t want to pass them on. Sorry about that.

Adoption then is a very good thing, I’m adopted myself since my bio mom was very very very abusive I’m surprised she not in prison to this day. She would definitely would be if she did want she did in to me in 1993-1994 in 2023. But adoption is amazing there 38 parents trying to adopt for every 1 child in the foster care system. We need as a society to make it easier for couples to adopt children.

[SnowedIn]

I think you wisely captured the issue: without dating, you won't get the long term relationship you desire.

That's true. You won't. If you want a long term relationship you will have to date.

However, dating does not mean that you have to give up on what you believe in. If you don't want sex early on, that's up to you. Dating can be on your terms.