My boyfriend keep asking me for money?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend keeps asking me for money and it’s really putting a damper on our relationship. My boyfriend and I don’t live together or share cars but he always ask me to take on his bills. My boyfriend is retired and only get $400-600 a month. His car broke down and he asked me to lend him $300. I did and not he asking me for a $1,000 because the mechanic that he paid $300 didn’t fix his car. On top of that he keeps asking me to buy him things from the store. Every month he asks me for money and he doesn’t pay me back until the next month or finds an excuse not to pay me the full amount back. This sometimes amuses me to be late in my rent or bills. I feel like my boyfriend should be ashamed to keep asking me for money and he should ask his friends first but he won’t.

[Lliam]

He's a bum. Don't loan him money. He needs to come out of retirement and get a freaking job.
Why are you even with him? Do you see any future with him?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for me I always say a friend is a friend but when it comes to money I’m not your friend & I’m not a bank as well. As for your boyfriend if he is retired & asking for money he should of never retired in the first place.

[Anonymous]

Unless you're a sugar momma you really shouldn't let him treat you like this. I get helping a boyfriend out with gas money etc. every once in a while, but it sounds like he needs to get out of retirement and get a job

[glimmershimmer]

He won’t ask his friends because he too embarrassed so instead he asks you because he knows you won’t say anything but once you do he’ll hate you and shove it in your face later on

[Asker]

It has started. Last month it was I can’t pay my phone bill and when I told him no he didn’t talk to me for two weeks. I told him to ask his friends since he says he is busy when he play video games with them all day.

[glimmershimmer]

Yea he’s using you and if you don’t give him what he wants he’s going to continue treating you that way. I’ve always said a man is worthless if he cannot provide or protect or support

[slatyb]

Why is he still your boyfriend? He's just a mooch. What are you getting out of this? Is he the last man on your planet? Dump him so you can meet someone who makes a contribution to your life.

[Asker]

How I’m going to be a sugar mama when I’m younger then him and still in my 20’s. I think he just trying to use me because he can’t support himself.

[provokeesmokee]

Nah, sounds like your boyfriend needs to come out of retirement to me.

Not ask others to support him.

Why are you dating him?

[Anonymous]

He keeps asking because he knows you are stupid enough to keep giving him money.

His car is his responsibility not yours. Seriously stop giving him money.

[Ironic_Method]

Have him pay you back the money he's borrowed first. Then as a general rule do not lend money that you can't afford to never get back.

[jeffend888]

You have a couple of good years left. I think you know what to do.

[Staximus]

Don't give him any more money, tell that bum to get a job

[jahaims]

How is he retired and broke af. He is using you

[Asker]

Retired and on disability but that’s not my fault.

[Wise4myage]

That's a HUGE red flag.

[Danny_dan92]

“Get a job”