Had any experience on online dating?

[haana]

i met an Egyptian guy online. He is great charming guy. He straightly asked my phone number after first day we chat and i gave it away

He’s looking for job in Dubai but didn’t have any luck.. He really wants to be with me. So he started telling me about financial problem & his visa was about to expire. He said he had nothing except me and telling me i’m the first person he felt a deep connection. After 2 days we’ve been talking and had video call, he asked me for money, he knew i have money bcs i clearly told him i’m working and had little bit savings. I refused to give, he returned to Egypt.

Fast foward after one year, we are still in contact, and he said he can travel to my country, and told me he can make a loan/borrow from his friends, so we can be together, find a job and build family together

i’m in doubt. What should i do? He tried to convinced me that we can be together. Half of me felt convinced with him, the other half of me feel i don’t want to jump into big decision without any proper plan.

[MementoMori777]

So he just decided to ask a girl he doesn't know for long for some money then a year later he wants to move to where you are and loan money from his friends? It seems weird because once he arrives to where you are, once y'all have commitment he might try to get into your pickets as Well, it all seems kinda weird and i think if someone is asking you for money in the beginning it's just shady, maybe that's just how I see it tho

[MementoMori777]

Pockets*

[haana]

i was thinking the same thing. I would never told anyone i barely knew about problems that i have. But he kept saying he felt deeper connection with me.

[MementoMori777]

I hope it's true cause you seem like a cool gal but people can lie when they have Ill intentions, my best advice is just put your feet in the water and don't just fully dive in with this dude.

[Pudsmucker]

I would say walk away from this guy and get you a new phone number. They're cheap I know a lot of people here in the United States that have gotten scammed by people that they thought they trusted. I have a hard time trusting people myself. It's time to walk away and leave his broken heart behind. If your gut feeling says leave him alone. It's time to walk away trust your guts. Or your woman's intuition. You'll be grateful.

[Pudsmucker]

You are a beautiful woman. And I hope you're not desperate.

[haana]

my gut is telling me he’s shady

[haana]

thank you!

[Breebree8]

Maybe you should get a background check on him before you decide on anything

[haana]

i did the background check, found his profile on linkedin, and also 5-6 social media accounts. Is it normal for someone to have such a lots of ig/fb acc? it’s acceptable if it’s 2 acc tho

[Breebree8]

I would ask him why he has so many

[Breebree8]

I have known people to have a few accounts it's normally when they forget there email or password

[ohsheeT]

I have. For most of the part they've been just the experience of meeting a good person and the experience in who they are in life some experiences have been pretty deep. And some experiences have just been meeting somebody and moving on

There is a poem people come into your life for a reason, a season, or for a lifetime.

And when I meet new people I kind of like look at it as that poem,

Especially people online and different countries are different parts of the world but there's always something beautiful about it

[haana]

so i should trust him?

[LoveWorkingOut]

If he doesn't have enough money or he wants monry from you, that shows he is bot financially stable.

So might be hard to start a family.

If he wanted you to send money just after 2 days, its risky to continue to talk

There are some girls like that online, usually from nigeria or colombia, asking for money, then they will stop talking lol

[LoveWorkingOut]

I would like to marry a foreign girl but i dont know. I mean how to trust, u dont know about his family etc
In a marriage i think its also importamt hows the connection between her/his family
You look very nice though, can i ask why you waited till 29 y. o? Its hard to like a guy for u?

[haana]

yes it’s hard for me to invest in someone

[LoveWorkingOut]

Yeah u shouldn't

[LoveWorkingOut]

Why can't i inbox you

[haana]

yes i don’t receive any message from you tho !

[haana]

i did inbox you ! feel free to check it out

[Writteninthestars]

Its not easy to in such a situation. You could tell him that he needs to settle down first. If he marries you before settling down and finding a job and then he doesn’t find a job and has to go back again then you’ll be in a predicament.
Things become frustrating and it just doesn’t end well if things are not though through properly.

[DryGermanGuy]

The guy arrives already with debts in his pocket and then wants to find a job etc etc while you finance his life? Hell no! 🤦‍♂️

[haana]

i know right ! i suggested him to apply job through any jobs platform if he wanna work in my country. once he get a job we can figure out next plan. I also barely survive with me working, doing part time study. I offer him to wait at least till i finish study but he said i am running away

[Jamie05rhs]

He's asking you for money? That's a red flag, sister. Do not associate with this man. He is bad news.

[Staximus]

The guy asked you for money. He's a con artist \ scam artist. A shady smooth talking bum. Stay away from this guy.

[Staximus]

The guy is going to steal your money and hide back in Egypt

[haana]

thank you! i will !!

[Danny_dan92]

All my relationships became a thing from online dating

[haana]

do you think if there any chance he tried to scam me? it crossed my mind a normal person would never told strangers their financial problems after 2 days talking

[Adogdog]

I have no experience. It's not easy. You do look pretty though in you're profile picture.

[mrkdvsn]

No, all my dating was done before the Internet came into being

[Anonymous]

I would avoid him. He seems only interested in getting money from you.

[haana]

thank you ! i hope that i meet someone better

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome. I hope you do too

[ThebestIndian]

Shady motherfucker, I would say