Should I feel guilty for rejecting many men in my life?

[catarecute]

does anyone else feel guilty for rejecting many people.

i feel in my life i rejected 1000s of men and one day i was rejected by a guy and i feel bad for the pain i caused

[Billlewis]

Oh my goodness, no... I think the world would be a better place if there were more women like you. Men, in general, need to be rejected repeatedly, to encourage them to better themselves and work harder to perform their most important task -- pleasing the female.

[catarecute]

women that neve reject men also the once who date the narcs sadly. a lot of men i rejected where narcissistic but some were decent people.

[sheikalana]

I never felt guilty for rejecting anyone. If they're not good for me I have no other reason but to reject them.

[catarecute]

what if your not good for them and you reject them? that was my case i think for most of them.

[Anonymous]

Nope
Rejecting cause they were not your type is not wrong
So you are not wrong and neither is the guy who rejected you

[catarecute]

no the guy who rejected me was wrong as so was i for many of them. there was noothing wrong with most of those guys. i think its arrogant to think someone isn't good enough for me especially if they are in love with me. i think it makes me narcissistic and when i was younger i was narcissistic i used to think i was too good and too attractive for all those men which is wrong of me. and this man probably though that too.

[Opinion Owner]

Seems your standards were too high and you realized that now
But that's not a crime

[catarecute]

lol my ego was to high those men were most really good looking and very successful. i think i was just up myself.

[Opinion Owner]

Naah it's OK
Even though 1000 may be exaggerated, I feel really lots of men must have appraoched you and there's no need to worry cause there's no reason for that to cease and you will eventually get a perfect person
Basically you made a mistake but you can still rectify it!

[catarecute]

probably was way more than 1000s close to millions. its not exagerated. i think men dont realise how often women in general get approched of asked out by men. not just me most women.

[catarecute]

i can't date anyone because i still love this arse hole from nevada who try to turn me mormon. am starting to think i am doomed to love him enternaly as a punishment for all the men i rejected.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh
But no, you must learn to get over and move on from people who hurt you
You are too young to assume yourself as "Doomed"
You still can have a wonderful life if you can learn and rectify mistakes

[catarecute]

looking back maybe it wasn't a mistake, most men are narsisistic and dont realise it. i dont know you and even you have managed to put me down anonymously without realising. so its really hard to meet a man who i can see myself getting on with. actualy i havnt met one so far.

[Opinion Owner]

Are you like Bipolar or something lol

[catarecute]

see what i mean. if you going yo through subtle insults at women online at least have the decency not to do it anonymously

[Opinion Owner]

Not insulting honestly, but seems you have multiple personality disorder or maybe you have mood swings cause you are literally opposite to what you were earlier

[catarecute]

if your name is Colton i forgive you. if not you are a narcissist and need to get help.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah and tomorrow you are gonna tell me I was right and say sorry and then next day the opposite

[catarecute]

if you can't see where you are going wrong with the stuff your saying there is nothing i can do for you. print this threat and go and show it to your mum she will explain it to you.

[Opinion Owner]

Hey yeah she's a doctor, she can give some tips for you !

[catarecute]

get a life

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah you need to and good luck

[catarecute]

and reflect on how you speak to women or dont be surprised if none of them want to be around you. how you speak to me is probably how you speak to everyone.

[Opinion Owner]

If you look up you will see how sweet and supportive I was until you just flipped and started blaming me LOL

[catarecute]

yea but then you showed your true colors. and you said that i wasn't approached a 1000 time in the 29 years i have been alive which is you calling me either a liar or highly unattractive. Either was you are rude whether you realise it that's a different story, i dont know.

[Opinion Owner]

I never knew that being approached by anything less than 1000 men makes you unattractive damn!! All I meant is if that's true, then why would good men stop approaching you and you thus have a chance to rectify your mistake of rejecting good men in the past...

[catarecute]

the average woman gets approached at least 7 times a week if she doens't go out partying or clubbing and at least 30 times a week when she does there are 52 weeks in a year so thats already about 1500 a year and thats for an average looking woman with a bit of makeup on if you mulityply this by how old she is minus 18 and you add the relationships she had as a teenager thats way over 1000 and thats not counting any perverts of course because they dont deserve to be counted in.

[catarecute]

and even if i was the ugliest woman you had ever seen and i just made it up its rude to point it out end off.