Why does my friend always hate on men?

[salew1111]

So im considering cutting a friend of mine off because im getting tired of her drama. So she will go out with a guy on a date then come back and have these horror stories about how all men suck etc. This last date really pissed me off, she literally said " I didn't want to give him my number but I did, I didn't want to go on the date but I did" and then the guy gets mad at her cause she's acting like a b**ch on the date and she gets on her social talking about him, why does she even go if "she didn't want to go".

[provokeesmokee]

She sounds exhausting.

You're valid for wanting to draw a boundary and you have every right to.

Maybe you can tell her that you don't really want to talk romance or dating with her, and if she could avoid those topics when with you, then there's no issue.

She may only want to bitch to you, though, in which case severing or limiting the friendship may be your only recourse.

Good luck!

[BrightBubblyKat]

Sometimes weird drama happens to others. I’ve found some of my friends dumped on me, then the minute I needed them, they were the first to doubt and accuse me of being a bad person, when it was the other people being bad people, but being good at presenting themselves as innocents. Don’t be so easily manipulated by others to bias and prejudice.

[Yannae]

I wouldn't cut her off. As a friend, you can try to help her realize how strange she's acting. Maybe you can help her see that she's not going to achieve anything with that way of going about things.

[Finchie40]

She sounds toxic , so yes distance
Yourself from her

[Lisia]

Maybe she likes playing with people's feeling or she might be a peoples pleaser or something