So I've been talkative and social as a kid and a teen but since almost every social gathering started to include dancing from (mild) extrovert I turned to introvert. Lack of dancing skills made it hard for me to feel confident enough to hang out with a lot of people since they like to dance. The same with romantic relationships. I could've landed a lot of cute and cool guys if I wasn't afraid of having to dance with them (or with anyone else) in the future. People often tell me that I'm pretty or that I have a nice body (I'm not miss universe ofc but I often got compliments about my looks through my life). I feel like my life would be a lot better if I liked to dance. Now I'm in my late twenties and my life is just passing by. There are a lot of guys around me who hate dancing, but I don't know a lot of girls who hate it like me and it makes me frustrated and it made me lose my self confidence.
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It would be ideal as far as I'm concerned, because I don't care for dancing, either. I only ever did it because girls like it and it was a way to meet girls.
I've taken girlfriends on special dates and danced.
My wife likes to dance. We've gone to some dances and I pretend to have a good time for her sake. But I don't get any joy from it and I'm not very good at it. I feel self-conscious.
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Why not take dance lessons then? Use this as an opportunity rather than dreading it.
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Guys do not care at all, and if a guy did care he is probably a closet case. No guy is going to turn you down over this.
Great!.. I can't dance either so it's a relief I don't have to do it for her lol
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Dance in private
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