Built up an emotional connection with a girl goin on 1 year and half, dates, intimacy, met her parents, everything been cool,, we cool etc?

[drufasa22]

She just ghosted me tho outta nowhere, also were co workers,... tried asking a few times wassup wit her, she always say she good, she just been vague, dont answer calls no more, none of that... I just kept it movin,... its kinda weird tho cause we was so COOL, why do y'all women be doing that, now she always the first one to look at my IG stories, im not sure what that means, but im confused like a mf

[HollyK21]

I’m sorry you’re going through this, ghosting after all this time just sounds cold. You said you built up an emotional connection, met her parents, etc, why weren’t you just in a relationship? Of course I can’t say with 100% accuracy why she chose to go about things this way, so all I can do is consider what led up to it. If you weren’t together, then I do wonder if maybe that contributed to her decision..

[drufasa22]

I mentioned getting together, but she always said she wasn't ready for a relationship. Even tho she just got out of a 10year relationship 2 years ago

[HollyK21]

In that case I’d say she’s playing games and not to entertain her anymore. For all you know, she’s exploring her options with other guys and making you an option, which isn’t ok. If you’re a solid person and know you wanna commit to something, then don’t waste any more time on someone who isn’t on the same page.

[Riribichri]

Maybe u weren’t clear with your intentions. Or Maybe she felt insecure around u. I had a friend who was so out of my league and always took the chance in flirting with everyone. I thought we had something but later I found out he was in some kind of a relationship with my room mate. He played me emotionally. But I couldn’t really hold him accountable. He was a good friend, because of what we have I have the courtesy to respect him as a friend but I don’t think I can ever bring back the old bond inbetween us again

[Avicenna]

That's really messed up. She may have some psychological issues you weren't aware of.

[driven159]

just playing games time to move on