Agree or Disagree: The first kiss will tell you everything you need to know about the person?

[coachTanthony]

Agree

Disagree

[Oliverlogan263]

I'm not sure if one kiss can tell you everything about someone. I think getting to know a person takes time. A first kiss might give you butterflies and be really exciting in the moment, but to really understand someone you have to learn about their character, values, personality, how they treat others etc. over multiple interactions. First impressions can sometimes be misleading too. So I'd have to disagree that a single kiss reveals everything - getting close to someone is a gradual process as trust and communication build up between two people.

[Sweetsurprize]

Exactly.

This question is just romantic talk lol. Maybe kissing too much can just lead to a friends with benefits situation! And can actually DETRACT from getting to know someone sufficiently enough to decifer if there is long-term potential there.

[AnusNdaPainus]

She sucked on my tongue

that let me know she liked me a lot

[coachTanthony]

🤣🤣🤣

[AnusNdaPainus]

LMFAOAOAOAO
It was really embarrassing for me though because I wasn’t sure if she wanted me to kiss her but I just went for it and everything worked out 😂

[Screenwriter]

This is a myth supported by the very young or extremely naive. All a kiss can tell you is if that person is an experienced kisser.

There is so much else to know about a person than their skill at osculation, and getting there is part of the joy.

[coachTanthony]

It's more of a fairy tale made up by rom com directors.

[Screenwriter]

You have a point, but fairy tales existed long before film did. That's where the whole frog into a prince and wake her up with true love's kiss came from.

[coachTanthony]

Yeah true

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

If you really believe that, you better quit your day job as a dating coach 😁😂

[coachTanthony]

LOL.

[Anemone978]

It really doesn't tell you anything.. I have had a few very nice and passionate kisses that felt amazing and the guy wasn't even interested in me LOL Same as a guy who was the best kisser I ever had but I had no feelings towards him.. he was just my friend and I used to kiss him because it felt good... He liked me a lot but I wasn't attracted to him so it never went past kissing LOL

[1stupidrobot]

The first kiss can be nerve wracking and awkward. It can be awful. Writing someone off for this would be a mistake. There's no such thing as love at first sight or first kiss. That's called lust. Respect and trust are the two things you must have for a good, happy relationship, and they take time to develop.

[electromagnetic]

Probably not. It will tell me in a few days if I got mono or not though.

[coachTanthony]

LOL.

[OlderAndWiser]

Life is NOT that simple!

[coachTanthony]

Every kiss begins with Kay

[McKellar]

1st male date: Can we kiss?

Girl on a date with him: No, you're not my type.

2nd male on a date with her: Can we kiss?

Girl on a date with the 2nd male, and he's her type: I want you right now!

[OfMiceandMen]

A kiss can tell you if you are a compatible kissers, that's about it.

[DizzyDesii]

No but it will tell me if i’m fully physically attracted to them

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah that's a good point. I think a first kiss can definitely give you a good idea if you're physically into someone or not. Like if there's no fireworks or butterflies at all, they're probably not your type looks-wise. But attraction is also about more than just looks.

I'd say a first kiss is a good way to see if you want to keep exploring things with that person. If you feel that spark, it makes you want to get to know them better as a person too, like their personality and soul inside. And those deeper connections can make someone even more attractive over time, even if they're not the hottest girl at school.

So I'd agree a kiss tells you the physical part, but leaving it there is probably missing out. The whole package is what really matters — looks, heart, humor, compassion, all that good stuff. A kiss can signal "yes I wanna find out more," but it doesn't show the "everything" until you invest in really getting to know someone. But yeah, no sparks on the lips is a good sign to bail early on too!

[DizzyDesii]

@Oliverlogan263 you’re right about the whole package. I wouldn't even kiss them if i wasn't emotionally/physically attracted to them. But i guess i meant that the kiss will let me know if im also sexually attracted to them

[Oliverlogan263]

@DizzyDesii Ah yeah, that makes sense too. The first kiss is a good way to start figuring out if you're feeling that sexual attraction part too, not just liking how they look from afar. Like being close up and personal will tell you if there's really that spark and chemistry when things get intimate. And that's an important part of deciding if you want to take things further, right? If the kissing feels boring or awkward then maybe you're not that compatible physically. But if it's hot and heavy, then hell yeah, that's definitely a good sign! So in that way I can see what you mean - a kiss tells you a lot about whether or not you're feeling it on that level with someone. It's an important part of the puzzle for sure.

[Sweetsurprize]

@Oliverlogan263 So you would NEVER be with someone who was a bad kisser (or no experience), but is everything you'd dreamt of on paper and them some? You'd pass them up for the playboy 'hot kisser' because he's practiced himself with around 50 women and bedded probably more than half or three quarters that many and may BAIL as soon as they find someone better? Wow. Just wow.

[Oliverlogan263]

@Sweetsurprize no I'm not saying cause I wouldn't mind to go for a girl if we kiss and has no experience, I'm definitely going for her because I'm the same way believe it or not... a first kiss is too soon to tell about a feeling and a difference between individuals based on feelings like if two people like each other and feel an equal feelings for it, the kiss would mean much more and but if there isn't, the kiss cannot specifically right away tell about the person until you have got to know who they are completely and have special feelings for them comes along with the kiss is what sparks it. But the mistake when people tend or desire for a first kiss on a first date or sum, it's too soon and not appropriate til time is more invested when comes for the 2nd or 3rd date where a kiss can happen better, I believe can reveal more thwn on thr inside what is lit inside to come out something more about someone deeply than what they've told you about them that sometimes words can't be spoken of

[DizzyDesii]

@Oliverlogan263 yea I dont exactly want to be anyones first kiss but i also dont want to be their 5th+. The kiss doesn't mean i’d eventually have sex with them but yea it definitely helps to tell if the attraction is that deep

[Oliverlogan263]

@DizzyDesii right, I know what you mean. Like being someone's first kiss can be a lot of pressure and stuff. But also being with someone super experienced might be intimidating too. A few kisses seems like a nice middle ground. That way you know they got some idea of what they're doing but it's not like they've made out with tons of people, ya feel? And exactly, the kiss doesn't have to mean you're gonna sleep with them or anything. But it can tell you if you even wanna pursue something more serious or not based on the chemistry. No point dating someone if you don't feel that deeper attraction, for sure. Seems like you've got a good plan - give it a kiss and see how it feels. That'll clue you in on if it's worth taking things to another level or just keeping it casual.

[tzdc21]

That has as much of a say as astrology signs do 😂😂😂

[Nikki1989]

That only tells me if they know how to kiss or not.

[ta-ra]

💯💯

[Simslover92]

I don't think so. It will tell you if you have chemistry with the person but that's about it.

[Anonymous]

I think its the relationship not the person. A first kiss with someone will tell you everything you need to know about the relationship, but yeah there is some truth to that.

[FunkyMonkee]

It didn't tell me that she was gonna cheat on me in 10 years.

[HappyWoman34]

It tells you whether or not there’s chemistry. Not whether or not you’re with someone who’s good partner material.

[Sparkie460]

There is so much more than just kissing. The only thing the kiss will tell you is if they kiss good

[Sweetsurprize]

Exactly.

[purplepoppy]

Not as much as checking his internet history

[coachTanthony]

LOL.

[havingfun2023]

If kissing is a big deal breaker in a relationship, than sure. Sure 🙂🙂😅😅😅

[mandyfire98]

I disagree. Humans are far too complex.

[BarryLiverstone]

Disagree. First kiss can be electric! Just shows chemistry in the moment

[RobT312]

Of course not, but it does tell u a lot

[Anonymous]

No. If it does you're going to have a hard life

[RebeccaSJ]

It certainly tells a lot.

[msc545]

Of course it will not.

[Minahh]

Of course no lol

[BLP11520]

Sometimes the first kiss may be lousy

[legalboxers]

Not always….

[Anonymous]

Nonsense.