True or false - money alone can make a woman see a man in a different light?

[Anonymous]

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That's why they like men with "rich man energy". Seem like you'd rip a man's heart out like an Aztec priest

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

False… I have only loved one man in my life. He didn’t have money. I would rather have him by my side than all the money that existed in the world.

Please, don’t say money is all that women care for.

It’s highly disrespectful and frustrating to hear that for women, who have truly loved someone regardless of his financial capabilities.

[HiveBee]

Would you entertain a caveat?

One could argue that all men truly want is a beautiful sexy 18 year old.

And us men would comment like you did. Explaining that we loved our SO and beauty was never a factor.

But I would argue at the root of every man's sexuality is that desire for female beauty. Even if we end up not going for that. Even if we end up with a hideous woman but we loved her.

The reality is the male sexuality is tuned for female beauty at its core.

Now I would ask, could one argue that the root of female ssxuality is a man's utility? Power?

Even if women don't go for it because it is unrealistic as a man's desire for a beautiful 18 year old.

Yet it can still be the true root and core if your sexuslity even if you dont go down that path.

And then I would ask, if power and utility are NOT the core of female sexuality, than what is?

If there isn't one, like we men have, than why is it different? Why is every woman's sexuality perfectly unique, but all men are crazy for beauty? Or would you argue men and women are the same and only society causes us to have different preferences?

Thank you if you bothered to read and even more if you reply =D

[Asker]

So you get pregnant and he doesn't have money... what do you do

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

We can earn together.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@HiveBee I loved someone who did not have money. I was engaged to him and I loved him crazy.

I believed we could build our “empire” together. I was ready to do my best for our future and always encouraged him as well.

He always told me he was lucky to have a woman who always stood by him and believed in him, even when he didn’t believe in himself.

If we got married and I was pregnant we would have shared funds for dealing with it. I made good money and it could have been good for both of us, we could afford having a house, and saving enough for the child.

Regardless, I believed everything could be solved as long as we loved each other.

And we did love each other.

I still believe love can be the motivation for just about anything, when you love someone, there’s no obstacle that can’t be solved.

[Asker]

The fact is 99% of women's instincts have evolved to seek a man who will give them free resources. Don't tell me you don't care about resources.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I want to be hard working, if he is hard working, both of us can get the necessary recourses together.

[Asker]

Nonsense. That's literally the equivalent of a man saying he would go sexless

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

You are free to think whatever you want to think.

I am just telling you what my relationship was like.

[HiveBee]

I don't know why but my question is very hard to ask and to understand.

I loved my ex wife. It wasn't just for her beauty.

But like, I can still introspect into my desires, and reflect upon those desires, and then speak into the world, the nature of my deepest desires.

Those desires are very intense and powerful. They are driven by the beauty of women.

Sure I didn't marry my ex wife for her beauty but that isn't the question I'm asking.

I'm not asking whether people can fall in love for reasons other than their base biological desire.

I am asking, what is your base biological desire?

Us men definitely have one. It is female beauty. Full stop. It doesn't matter for what reasons we fall in love.

The simple reality is the base of male desire is for the beauty of women.

I am hoping that makes sense. And a woman can understand what I'm saying and answer either what they feel their base biological desire is, if they reject the idea of such a desire for women, or if they reject even such a desire for men, and maybe argue that it is socially constructed.

But I am just always hoping for a good answer. But maybe I am a poor communicator. =D so sorry for that if none of this makes sense.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@HiveBee You are curious what attracted me to my ex?

My ex was an exceptionally beautiful, handsome, hot man.

He walked and everybody looked, even the guys.

He was very masculine, very good looking and his shoulders were the broadest I’ve ever seen in a male.

I remember thinking “A man with the shoulders like this could protect me anywhere and find me anywhere.”

I was touching him and thinking how did I get this lucky to have this absolutely hot and devilishly handsome man to love me.

I went to sleep and woke up every night being immensely in love.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I’ve never liked a male this much, not before him not after him.

He was the god’s mist perfect masterpiece and the most beautiful male being I’ve put my eyes on.

And he was amazing, his personality perfectly matched mine, he was good at everything I was bad at, we were complete opposites of each other and I admired his strengths and thought of myself as a happy woman to have found my other half.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

And I loved him with everything I had.

I loved him to death and if I was given chance to spend the last 1 day of my life by his side and give up the rest of my life or live a happy life without him in it, I would choose the first one.

Sometimes, I remember how hard I loved him and I guess surprised I was even capable of loving someone this much.

He was my world.

And my most painful lesson later on.

He was my fiancé.

[HiveBee]

Okay that's a good answer thank you lol.

[exitseven]

It is true that money is all that women care about. I think that if somebody has money and is successful in life, as opposed to some spoiled rich kid it means that maybe there is a lot more to him than what shows on the outside.

[exitseven]

*No, money is not all that women care about. *

[DizzyDesii]

Not me. Well unless he's rich and then i see it as a red flag. I preferred to use my own finances but dated 2 “rich” dudes who were very controlling and kept trying to use materialistic things/gifts to make me “obey”. Fck that. I’ll take someone a bit submissive and “broke” over that in a heartbeat

[Asker]

What kind of gifts

[DizzyDesii]

Extravagant things that a man should only offer someone he's married too, not someone whose just a girlfriend

[Asker]

Like cars? How expensive?

[DizzyDesii]

$60k+ if i was willing to drive/it but im not

[Asker]

Yeah that's crazy and definitely the wrong type of gift.

[DizzyDesii]

Another was a house. But if its not built the way i prefer then i dont want it

[Asker]

Ms. Picky

[DizzyDesii]

Very, which is why i like to do and afford stuff myself because it has to be a certain way

[Miristheiss]

I voted true. As with all things, there are 4 billion women. Not all of them will have the same reaction or value system.

But, in general, most women will see a man differently, to some degree, if she knows he has a lot of wealth.

[ohmyguy]

having some makes u visible only having enough makes u viable.
if you dont have any than there's nothing to look at and nothing to see no matter the light

[Asker]

So true

[laurieluvsit]

It worked for Hugh Hefner

[exitseven]

Yes, Hef got a lot of action,.

[Anonymous]

nope if a dude is ugly/fat/old or has no personality or is a total dickhead, no money in the world is gonna make me want to date him. though to be fair money can help though. like yea it can make an average looking dude more attractive and stuff like that, but its not gonna make everyone desirable

[perenperen]

It’s more based on how it fits with his personality. Like cause and effect of how money or no money helped make his personality.
If he’s rich from his parents then that’s bad. If he’s rich from his own hard work then that’s sometimes good. If he’s poor from his family then it depends. If he’s poor from lack of work then it also depends.

Basically it’s ethics and personality that have stemmed from money.

[Asker]

Why's it bad to be rich because your parents were rich

[perenperen]

Ig that’s worded unwell but it’s like when you see people with bad personalities because they don’t want to work and only party because their parents are rich and pay for them.

[Asker]

Yea I guarantee you that kind of guy still gets women

[Billlewis]

True, but he still has to be appealing enough to hold her interest. But, yes, a guy with money beats a guy who is poor anytime.

[strateguy632]

i disagree she will settle about other factors because with a rich she can buy more shoes and dresses and he will give her jewelry that i can't give.

[jshm2]

That's called a "gold digger," kiddo

https://www.youtube.com/embed/6vwNcNOTVzY

[BourbonAndBacon]

I had much more success on dating apps when I put I own my own business, my house is paid off and I want to travel. So a little disposable income definitely helps.

[Anonymous]

I see him in a different light in the sense that I'd assume he was arrogant and a womaniser.

He may not be of course, but I stereotype men who are weathly. I'm not more attracted to a guy because he has money.

[provokeesmokee]

I mean, that's pretty general. So yeah, usually - but that impression can be easily a negative if he's a douche.

[exitseven]

If a guy is successful in life is shows he has ambition and intelligence and is a lot more than what you can see on the outside.

[Thumper2thump]

It depends on the character of the individual person

[OddBeMe]

Money makes everyone see people differently in a capitalist country.

I love how we have communist type feelings sometimes but then hate giving money to the poor and call on the capitalist gods when worshipping America.

[kukukuku323]

Money ALONE? Objectively that answer is no.
Telling her, convincing her you're wealthy whether you really are or not?
Yes, absolutely.

[Grond21]

Yes, it absolutely CAN. But it doesn't have to. Women are not slaves to money

[Sasha0426]

I feel like this is to trick women into saying no and then they get called a liar.

[Chthou95]

True. And every woman is hypergamous to an extent. So money no matter what woman it is, will help and there is no right or wrong in this

[Elinnnor]

The truth is yes, it does. You are a man differently If he has more money or less than You.

[Elinnnor]

See*

[inhua]

of course it would, just like his looks

[Suthain]

You are watching too much Andrew Tate.

[Nikki1989]

Only a man would think this is true.

[strateguy632]

only a man would write it but women wouldn't admit it

[boobliker]

money makes everything look better

[Anonymous]

True for the most part.

[DaBiggestBird]

A gold digger sure

[LiamJHayden]

Can, but only for some women.

[Mamaliv]

Depends on the woman

[DailyLife]

That's true about %90 woman in the world.

[Jmmmfi4]

NO QUESTION