A man's money will never excite an independent woman - True or False?

[Unit1]

I imagine these ladies be like:

"Ya wot m8? You think you can buy me with money? You think so lowly like I'm a college hooker next street? You are very mistaken hon. I'm not for sale. Here's a tip: If you think we are gold diggers, you're shooting yourself in the foot. Now why would you do that?"

Ah yeah. I love women like these! They attract me 😍

True

False

Women love money

I vote this in order to not vote. Wait, what did I just say?

[Cynicaldreamer]

"Money excites everyone, therefore an independent woman will make her OWN money, not rely on a man to provide money for her. That's why she is an independent woman."

There, fixed that for you :)

If a woman is truly independent, she's with a man because she enjoys his company, not because she needs or wants his money.

[AndrewMG]

I mean I do ok and work a lot of overtime during lockdown, but if what I've earned this summer is looks at as an attractive feature, then I'm attracting the wrong person lol

[Unit1]

I do wonder about one thing.
If at one moment in a woman's life they get excited over men's money, at which moment do they significantly lose interest towards men's money (if at all)? Like it could be a maturing process or aging or both or her own financial situation 🤔

Disclaimer - I see very many women working in HR or accounting or recruiting or at the reception, so don't go thinking, that I think, that women are gold diggers 🤢 because these women are clearly and happily making their own money.

[Aliceinwonderland22]

True I say, dont get me wrong. If I dated a guy making good money, it would be useful as it means we can both contribute giving us a better overall average leading to a more well off life style, but I dont date a person for their money, I date them for their personal

[Anonymous]

If this were true you’d expect high earning women to have less concern about their partners income.
on average, that doesn’t appear to be the case.

[cth96190]

False.
Women are excited by money, no matter how much money they have themselves.

[Unit1]

But didn't you say they are excited by bad boys too?

And if so, how do you explain, that they would run after them bad boys over the "good guys with money"? Is it a matter of who excites more? Your perspective is confusing 🤣

[cth96190]

@Unit1
It depends upon the age of the female.
Twenty-five and younger they want POS bad boys.
After 25 they begin to change.
By 30 most want money, but they will fuck the pool boy, their tennis coach and their personal trainer on the side.

[Unit1]

So if I want to score with women, I should become a pool boy with a good body? Or a tennis coach?

[VVVVS]

I won’t say “never”. I see myself as an independent woman. I earn as much if not more than my other half. But I cannot accept my other half earning LESS than me. And by the same measure, I will say being equally ambitious and sharing the same zest for life is just as important. If a girl and guy don’t see eye to eye on these matters, then no amount of money can save the relationship.

[Unit1]

Ahh ok. If he earns a dollar less than you, he better start looking for a new girlfriend.

[VVVVS]

If he earns less than me now but shows the ambition to do better and actually takes the actions to achieve his goals, then that’s still acceptable. And I will support him wholeheartedly in his journey to achieving more in life. What I cannot take is a man who earns less than me and is content that way.

[Unit1]

Understood :)

[Anonymous]

I don't think "never" is an appropriate word. I think that first and foremost your relationship should be built on your connection and not what's in your wallet. But, independent or not, in our society money is the gateway to bigger and better things and that feeling of opportunity can be exciting.

[Unit1]

So basically eventually many women would jump on a rich man's lap?
Understood 🤔

[Unit1]

Also my "ex" did that too, so I can't say I'm surprised.

[Opinion Owner]

Ey man excitement doesn't mean impulse and ignoring red flags. I think you might be projecting your own thoughts onto my post. "Jumping on a rich man's lap" is not the same thing as feeling excitement or contentment when you find out your mans has pockets.

[Unit1]

Oh, I apologize for this misunderstanding! Of course one doesn't have to automatically mean the other. Happy to see you stayed on topic :)

[Opinion Owner]

For sure :)

[Jjpayne]

Yes and I'd say that's a good thing hopefully because then she's looking at things other than money

[Yads_Is_Back]

TRUE

[Nayyr]

Women love money