We haven’t spoke since Thursdays date. Conversation was heavy at the end and she doesn’t seem interested in me/barely any affection. Told me she’s afraid to get hurt again cuz she likes me and we took things too fast. I let her be, and she posted this on her social today. Seeming like I should be doing something different. I put effort in already, seems like it was too much and too fast. This is another mixed signal and no idea what to do other than respond regularly to her texts. And I’ll go hours without responses. Want to ask for another date but she might try to dodge it. Or turn dry like the last.
Girl sent me home with food after mediocre/serious end to date last Thursday. She been sending mixed signals. She posted this before texting me today?
We took things too quickly dating. I think she felt she was also intimate to quickly. Said she’s got past trauma of guys leaving her after they date for a short period. Assured her I’m not those guys but things have been pretty quiet since
Talk to her and explain, "We seemed to make an instant connection and it felt wonderful connecting with you in a physical way, but. . . if you had told me that you were very worried about being used or being taken advantage of. . . I would have known to go slower. I still want to move forward with you, if you will tell me when things aren't comfortable for you. And if you don't want to give it another chance, I will always look back on this with regrets, wondering what might have been. So tell me if you want to say goodbye or call me and say 'I wanna see you again,' but please don't ever think that I wanted to use you."
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"We took things too fast" means what?
We took things too quickly dating. I think she felt she was also intimate to quickly. Said she’s got past trauma of guys leaving her after they date for a short period. Assured her I’m not those guys but things have been pretty quiet since
Anybody who gives me the cold shoulder and segues that into talking about her "past trauma" is getting deleted from my phone before I'm out the door.
Talk to her and explain, "We seemed to make an instant connection and it felt wonderful connecting with you in a physical way, but. . . if you had told me that you were very worried about being used or being taken advantage of. . . I would have known to go slower. I still want to move forward with you, if you will tell me when things aren't comfortable for you. And if you don't want to give it another chance, I will always look back on this with regrets, wondering what might have been. So tell me if you want to say goodbye or call me and say 'I wanna see you again,' but please don't ever think that I wanted to use you."
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