So me and this one guy is currently in so called situationship. He do everything that on other people eyes, we are dating. We even reach to the point of holding hand, hugging.
Just when things are going great, my friend saw him with other girl outside from campus, at night, holding hands at the mall.
I feels like i want to end this confusion properly so that i can easily move on, but thinking of randomly asking him about that girl, it might seems weird and he might think i like him (which i want to avoid the most especially if its true that the girl is his girlfriend).. Bear in mind, i only once ask him if he has girlfriend during our early day and he say no, but he few times mentioning he doesn’t have a girlfriend without me asking even the latest he say so is last week.. Yet at the end of the day, this happen..
I dont know what action should i take, or how should i ask for a confirmation..
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"he might think i like him (which i want to avoid the most especially if its true that the girl is his girlfriend)." Why is that so important?
You don't consider yourself to be his girlfriend, so maybe the other girl doesn't consider herself to be a girlfriend, either. If you do not have any agreement to date monogamously, or exclusively, then he is entitled to spend time with other girls.
The problem is that you want something - a committed relationship - without ever actually talking about it. Think about how your actions have contributed to this situation.
Just because… If he notice i like him during this current situation, i believe it will hurts my ego (yeah, hate on me for that)
I don’t mind he spend his time with other girl, but if he's dating with her, i would totally distancing myself knowing i would be mad if he is my boyfriend and doing so to other girl. Hence my concern now is how to confirm what is that girl to him..
Well i can’t deny i’m at fault as well for not coming straight, but i was in the process of collecting all the signs until i believe maybe i have chance, then only i plan to go for it, but now when things turn this way, most probably that will never happen..
He isn't your boyfriend so regardless if he is seeing the other girl or not, he is not cheating on you as again he is not your boyfriend and you are not in a relationship. A situationship is not a relationship
Thats the point.. I know i dont have the right to be mad etc, but my main point here is that, i just need to figure out if he is actually dating other girl. If he just meet as friend etc, im fine with that