at my job there’s a lot of people. Not everyday you get chance to work with the same person, each day you work near different people or have to work in a different spot. All month different boys have been showing interest like on purpose walking next to you so you notice them, stare at you from afar or if you pass by them. On purpose walk near you many times so you notice them. Walk same path as you on purpose so they r noticed by you. Park car near yours on purpose. Smile at you. But none talk. All are mute.
do I need make first move and talk? also out of all these boys I only have interest in one and another one I liked quit the job so I have one person only to pursue lol. When I was young age 13-20 men rejected me when I made first move that’s y I am not initating talk as family friends have all said if a guy likes you he needs make first move girls should never make first move.
I’m 26 now. I only had one boyfriend my entire life age 23-25. But we never met family so I broke up with him. So after a month of meeting a new boy daily at workplace I have no boyfriend still LOL. Help.
only one boy beginning of the month did initaite talk to me but I never made 2nd move to me talk to him next. He’s too young 18 and I’m 26 I need older guy. 24-30. Also all boys look@floor. 🙄
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Because thats somthing many companies and people as a whole pushed as to ensure people can't get in trouble
Well for me in my experience at my job it’s normal like each other and be a couple. In my job many work with bfs gfs or date each other. Many find a partner at the workplace. It’s normal at my job and allowed
In my past job it was normal eveyone found a boyfriend or girlfriend at the job there.
If its so normal for u why are they doing what I explained lol
Its also becoming more normal that people are being reported for harassment inside of the workplace so people are less likely to want to date from jobs
cuz they r being weirdos lol or want girl make first move to talk. They give all these hints and mute. They give hints so the girl talks to them I think 🤔
They are weirdo's because they are not talking to you and prefer to be spoken too first sure thing I guess
At my job many boys have gfs there. Many people r dating at my job
I’ve never heard of guys wanting girl to talk first. This is all new to me.
I’m told by everyone that if a guy likes you he needs to talk first. So I’m waiting and waiting and the guys show interest but don’t talk.
So u believed your past experience was how all men acted u honestly think if a man likes u he will 100% go out of his way to speak to you
Well i now see not all men that like you will approach you. So I guess I have to talk first to the guy I like at my job.
Pretty much
I didn’t know men want girl to make first move. Y they don’t do it?
Can be anything from bring shy or scared to not being comftble dating in the workplace or not wanting to be rejected this is not a new concept most men these days won't approach women they like thats why many turn to online dating
Well I never had many bfs so this is all new to me I have no experience. I only had one boyfriend age 23-25 but we didn’t meet fmaily or anything. I’m a 26 year old with 0 experience feel like I’m 15 in highscool.
Your describing many guys expirance
so guys don’t have experience in having a girlfriend?
No many guys have none what so ever why do u think so many started turning to redpoll and Intel ideology because they lack the skills to communicate with women and go on to become bitter about it
U do know most men that approach women end up getting rejected right?
I see all girls with a boyfriend so it feels like it’s easy for men get a girlfriend. The ones that r good looking even decent looking. The girls throw themselves at good looking guys
Ironically I was guna initaite talk first to my crush. but he quit so I never got chance talk to him. Ever since he quit a new guy that looks similar to him
That’s his dopplenager appeared at the job.
Then I thought it was weird I would see him often and we crossed paths a lot and he would work in a far different area at work than me.
Then I thought it was weird we both looked at each other at the same time and he looked at floor smiling and his super face red pink.
Then he would park his car near mine few times.
He hasn’t talked to me yet, so I think I need do it. Another time recently he was looking for me and was walking next to me on purpose
I can’t smile at him as he’s looking at the floor pretending to not see me
So talk to him
I thought he was guna talk to me first lol I’ve been waiting
OK so continue waiting then lol
If I wait I think he’ll never talk to me LOL it’s. A pattern all month boys show interest n don’t talk to me i think I need to talk first
So talk to them first
How I’ll get a boyfriend if the guys aren’t talking n mute lol
Speaking to them first
At first I was confused y show interest then make me feel they don’t like me as they aren’t initating to talk first? It made me think they don’t like me
We have already spoke about nit all guys being able to speak first so if u like him do the talking
I hope they make the second move 🙁 or they will remain mute still 🙁
Because you're supposed to keep it professional at work.
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