Would you date a man or a woman who is rich but won't spend any of it on you until both of you are married? (Page 2)

[Pohjolan]

Eh her paying for herself would be a improvement from the average woman.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't care. I get it. Most people will use you for your money. They cannot control themselves. It's not that people want to use you for money and sex etc... but they literally cannot control themselves.

[OfMiceandMen]

If she didn't mind me getting a t-shirt made that says..."I'm with Cheapo", and finger pointing her direction.😂

[Kiran_Yagami]

Yes. That's smart of her. No airplanes for me until we're married.

[msc545]

No. If I have to spend my money dating her, she can spend some of hers dating me.

[JesseP1nk]

Ofcourse. I take care of myself anyway. Makes no difference to me

[Joshydavid25]

Sure... As long as she doesn't expect a broke boy like me to pay for everything when she has the means.. As long as her reasoning was okay, and not her just being selfish..

[worldscolide]

Money was never a consideration for me when i was dating.. so i have no issue with it.. I also have zero issue with holding onto my cash until i am married.. Granted im married already lol.

[DizzyDesii]

Not that I need to touch it ever, but at least once married is how it should be.

[Nikki1989]

Why are men on here so obsessed with money?

[coachTanthony]

Because women want to take it from them lol

[Unit1]

But why marry?

[coachTanthony]

I am not spending my fortune on anyone but my wife. It's just how it is.

[Unit1]

For me there is no reason to marry. I don't see why men should marry. It's kind of a pointless extra with extra burdens.

[coachTanthony]

Well it's one way to avoid a gold digger. 5 year relationship , 1 year engaged then get married. Gold diggers want the gold now.

[Unit1]

And the adept gold diggers know how to get it.

[coachTanthony]

Those are far and few between. Most gold diggers are not sticking around 6 years. Not saying there are none but the likeliness of you getting played for 5 years plus is doubtful unless you're a complete idiot lol

[Unit1]

Yeah, but on the other hand the good girls aren't gonna invest 5 years either to get that marriage certificate and the bankrupt-making ceremony. Especially if they aren't young anymore.
Most girls were fed this idea, that marriage is the ultimate goal (the sooner the supposedly better).
For some reason it takes until a divorce to see that it's kind of a meaningless thing.

[Sparkie460]

I don't care how much money they have. That's not the reason I'd date them. I don't care if they don't spend any money on me

[Anonymous]

Yes, I would be living a happy and stress free life, but it's not really possible so it can be just a fantasy

[WhitneySnow]

Absolutely not

[Fuentes]

Sounds like finesse I would take call me Kevin Federline

[Quigly]

Selfish doesn't suddenly change after marriage/commitment.

[sushimenon]

I don't think so there's any problem

[CheeseMonster]

No. I don't date, or marry.

[Tomisworthless]

I wish I was rich and lonely.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely