Boyfriend not talking to me after fight, who’s fault is it?

[Anonymous]

So he caused a fight, I got pissed off but I ended up texting him this. “You’re a f*cking idiot, you never learn I’ve told you what annoys me and you still do it. F*ck off!!”.

I was angry but felt he needed to hear it and now it’s so awkward between us , we live together but he’s not saying a word apart from bye when he leaves the house. What should I do? He did start the fight so I don’t feel I should talk first..

[jahaims]

You both sound super immature. It literally doesn't matter who is right and who is wrong or who talks first. In a relationship you communicate. You can start out by saying sorry for being rude while you were trying to communicate and let him know that you would like to communicate now without being rude.

[BarryLiverstone]

Both of you are at fault

[Asker]

How both?

[BarryLiverstone]

His fault for starting it and your fault for refusing to do the work to fix it

[Asker]

The person who starts the fight should fix it

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope. In a relationship you both contribute and work together. So talk to him

[Luckycharms12]

Both fighting so both to blame

[Anonymous]

Talk to other guy