Why is it so stigmatized for women to make the first move in a relationship? (Page 2)

[strateguy632]

that specific one was jealous of you. but no real stigma.

[CallmeTheKnight]

Honestly it’s not. Some people prefer it and some people don’t. Only a loser will feel some type of way about it

[jahaims]

I don't think it is. You are just projecting based on your experience.

[jojoisaskingyou]

I guess it goes against the grain. I love confidence in a woman though, so make the first move!

[LiamJHayden]

It shouldn't be. I am not shy and have no issue approaching, but more than once I have been OBLIVIOUS that a girl was interested.

[Anonymous]

I don't oppose women doing it but I just find it to be a bit of a turn off. I'm generally not interested in women who take the lead like that. That's not to say it's wrong or bad, it's just not what I prefer.

[Anonymous]

I'm not really interested, I reject all women who approach me anyway, I'm not interested in spending my time on women.

[Monalisa77]

So y r u on this app/site? Lol

[Guido]

I think it's nice if a woman does. It shows she has confidence and goes after what she wants. Do not be afraid or ashamed of anything you do.

[LīgaLakstīgala]

I don't think it's stigmatized. It's more like we don't have the balls (pun unintended) to do it. I would much rather give a man the green light than actually drive the car myself.

[Likes2drive]

It shouldn’t be anymore, supposed to be equal now, don’t feel bad doing it though

[IHateBeingaMan]

majority of women are just stubborn and adamant about this

[Guardian45]

It's not stigmatizing. It's wonderful and I wish more women did it!

[Heolurt]

It's not, girls just like coming up with excuses as to why they won't.

[Anonymous]

It's not stigmatized, most women are just too cowartdly to do it.

[dolemite58]

since when? 😂 girls can make the first move it’s fine

[krin_m]

That is unfortunate. I love it when a woman initiates.

[azgınteke]

I think it doesn't matter whether it's a girl or a boy when making an offer, civil courage.

[RoosterJuniour56]

I didn't even know it was stigmatized
why did you feel ashamed and bad about it

[Anonymous]

I don't see this ever becoming more common unfortunately

[Unit1]

There is no such stigma.