Do men really need to chase to fall inlove?

[dutchgal]

Women are being told to be unattainable, that good men get bored if you’re ready for them, being in couple sounds exhausting. Do men really need to chase?

[AmeerX]

I don't chase a girl. I tell a girl I like her. She says she likes me too. We talk for few days and plan engagement for few months later introduce to family and friends.

She says no. I back off. May be be sad but I never regret it.
This long dating games is nonsense and time waste. Here is a realistic dating chart.
If you start dating at 20 you can date 1 person every year and not get married by age 50 when you are too old.
If you do what I do at least your feelings are relatively safe from deeper hurt others feel.
PS. Nothing wrong in me if someone doesn't reciprocate at least I was honest.

If I chase a girl I feel my self esteem will go in drain and I don't want drama and nonsense

[DannyUk2017]

If we chase... We look Desperate after the (pu$$y power)...
If we don't chase... They think what a Simp, doesn't want a "cookie like me/doesn't sees me as girlfriend/wifey material", so conclusion?
Neither way is Better!
So that's why most of us just GAVE UP!!!
🤷‍♂️

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats bs, if I have to chase her, she doesn't want me.

Good men want good women who are honest and wear their heart on their sleeve so to speak.

If you like or love someone, tell them, show them, don't do stupid mind games.

[Flatmanlewis]

Some do. Some don’t. I’d expect a little bit of the chase but I’m not playing high school games. If you’re interested then show it and if not then I’m a man with self-respect and dignity. I’ll invest my efforts elsewhere then.

[DextroShade]

Whichever bitch is telling you that is full of shit and doesn't understand men AT ALL. We want girls who want us, we don't want girls who don't seem interested, play stupid games and are a pain in the ass.

[BourbonAndBacon]

If you chase that implies that someone is running away. If there isn't equal effort put into the relationship at the beginning then why would a guy think that would ever change

[Billlewis]

It adds a tremendous amount of excitement for me if she doesn't show much interest in me and makes me work very hard to get her to talk to me.

[SunnyRS]

No that's not true.
I have never chased a girl for love, it's always been mutual, if we click, we click, if not then see you again pal.

[OddBeMe]

I think humans need that. Which is why rich people are so unhappy.

[Anonymous]

They want some struggle and hunt to get their reward. So some chasing is good 😜

[spartan55]

Enjoy that. What reward are you getting in the end?

[Ameer99]

A man likes to struggle to enjoy what he has achieved

[Saycrazyshxt]

I don’t chase men so idgaf what they need. They fin need this cunt.

[Luckycharms12]

No but the chase is the most fun part

[dutchgal]

How long do you consider the chase can go on for?

[Luckycharms12]

Depends on persons involved

[spartan55]

Dude, you think that shit is fun? Most women won't even acknowledge they are attracted to you. Too much of 0 effort on their part. Guys are finally wising up.

[jahaims]

No, those are just immature games

[BLP11520]

I don’t think that they have to

[Anonymous]

I Don't chase..
I get chased

[Twalli]

I don't chase.