He was in the military so no phones are allowed, he only uses his phone when he geta back home, so suddenly i see this girl in his likes list and he is in hers, literally every post, they like each other's everything. Confronted him and he said it was a random girl just for more likes and he unfollowed and removed her. Can't get over this, help?
Whatever you do, don't show anymore of your jealously on this matter, or any similar future situations. If he senses that you're trying to restrict his movements, the fear that you have of him leaving you will come true, as he won't like it. Just use your eyes rather than actions to see if you see numerous things that are different from his typical behaviour, and then try asking his friends casually about what they've all been up to lately together.
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You're being way too sensitive. What do you do if you catch him watching porn? Because this is about that personal. If she's really a random girl with lots of followers and sexy pics, you should really let it be go and stop being obsessive. You will push him away if you track and opine on every little thing he does
First thing I have to ask... do you do the same thing? Do you follow any random guys because they are either interesting or hot af.
If so, you can't be mad at him for doing the same thing.
Besides, a lot of those things are short-lived. They like this and than and then things fall off the rails and don't even comment or read each others stuff. It'll go to the wayside, just give it time. You just do more harm than good if you overreact to it.
Really? We reached that point where u can't get over ur guy following someone on Instagram? this generation is sensitive AF. Some people nowadays are trying to get over losing their homes or loved ones and u can't get over ur boyfriend following a girl on ig? Get outta here
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He removed her. What else do you want him to do now?
Any man that has respect for his woman and isn't leaving doors open for other options wouldn't be liking or following 'random' girls. If he saw potential in you for his future then he would do anything to keep you and not bring any suspicions. Yes, jealousy isn't healthy however when you see red flags like this you need to make mental notes.
You don't get over it.
You either accept it or move on.
You are not going to change the stripes on a Zebra.. sorry :(
the sensible thing to do is figure out where she lives from the myriad photos she mindlessly uploads to the world as if it cares.
Then drive at good speed past her house in an electric car rented for the purpose.
when you see her mow her the fk down.
Then reverse over her for luck.
Noone looks before crossing the road unless they hear an engine.
But you can't hear electric cars.
sneaky sneaky. Then hose her blood off and return it to the rental place.
Problem solved. BITCHHe removed her so what are you still bitching about? Men can follow women just like women can follow men. I think you need some counseling for your toxic jealousy.
People who obsess over insta follows let me tell your guy/girl can have another insta account or jack off to people who don’t have their account private Ok? Y’all already watch porn too much.
Sheesh seeing people cry over insta follows and likes yet at the same time defend there graciously ethical right to watch porn while being in a relationship is funny
That is so sus lol even if he removed her, are you sure they quit having contact? (Maybe in DM's or something) And does he usually care about likes?
Well I’m crazy and I’d have a problem with it. Huge red flag as far as I’m concerned. You had to tell him to delete her just for him to delete her and not by his own accord?
Trust your guy. It’s inappropriate. You need to trust each other and this breaks that trust. He doesn’t need to give time to any other girls than you, his family and daughters. Move on
Ah, yes monitoring your boyfriends Instagram... always a staple of a healthy relationship.
This is why I’m glad I have none of this Instagram nonsense. In what world does this even matter?
That is sketchy. They probably knew each other
you don't follow some random chick and have each other like each and every single one of their pictures, and vice versa... you know what's going on and your gut instinct is correct.
You’re going to have a lot of trouble in life if you can’t get over something as trivial as this.
It’s not that serious, so I wouldn’t worry about it because it’s not like he can actually get with her, do you know how many other guys are following her probably thousands
Does she live near where he is stationed? If not, let it go.
Stay off his Instagram before you fuck everything up
This person may be a relative of your boyfriend or not
Do the same, Follow a random guyoh no its all over the end is here
Does he know her
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