How to handle a guy who has commitment problems?

[kc2043]

A. Move on
B. Wait patiently

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+1 y

I wouldn't deal with a man who has commitment problems or is running hot and cold

[dynamicyandere]

Move on.


If they are the type to commit, they will commit.


They they aren’t the type to commit, their whole philosophy needs to change for them to feel ready.


And there’s no guarantee that it’ll happen soon, if ever.


The only time I’d consider waiting is if you haven’t given him a reasonable amount of time to get to know you and make that decision.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

If he doesn't want a commitment, then you need to take a break from him.

[kc2043]

I'm completely gone this time jo break needed plus this guy is watching my social media

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@kc2043 I wish you the best on this matter.

[kc2043]

Thanks he was the last man I dealt with friendship wise before him that man was the last man

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :)

[Bethany22]

Display your loyalty as a friend, but continue to date other men. Do not have sex with him. These types of men want what they can't have. So once he sees that other men want you, he'll probably show more interest in you.

[Selliebeanz]

I wouldn’t display my loyalty as a friend. It’s a nice sentiment and can be done if not very emotionally invested on your part but I think she was. Then you end up hearing about other women etc. I wouldn’t do it. You’re right about not having sex with him though. I wouldn’t invest in any way to someone I was vulnerable with but acted like that.

[kc2043]

This man is states away... he's not around where I'm at and we were friends, but I have moved on

[provokeesmokee]

Move on, in my opinion.

I dated enough commitment phobes. I don't have interest in waiting to see if they achieve growth. They can do that on their own time - I respect their process; it ain't my process, though.

[HollyK21]

Yeah, definitely don’t waste time waiting for someone who isn’t picking you right now.

[Pterodon]

Move on. There’s no such thing. When Miss Right comes along all those “issues” magically disappear. You ain’t Miss Right

[kc2043]

I don't deal with these types of guys nor do I put my eggs in 1 basket

[electromagnetic]

You dont ‘handle’. You accept and move on.

[overthinkergirl]

a. move on

[kc2043]

I agree I'm so tired meeting these types of guys I don't know why they approach women knowing they have problems

[kc2043]

Than they play mind games which I don't entertain

[overthinkergirl]

me too and i won’t waiste my time on them. if they don’t know want they want then goodbye. if he has commintement issues then someone else won’t have them

[Selliebeanz]

I’d leave. Ain’t got the time or patience.

[kc2043]

I did. He's acting so strange and weird now extremely toxic behavior

[kc2043]

Lack of communication and toxic.. no communication for 2 weeks now

[Selliebeanz]

Yup. You did the right thing. The moment someone shows you they can live without you flip that script and show them back.

[Anonymous]

You could waste years with a guy like that.

[kc2043]

Luckily years was not wasted

[Opinion Owner]

Agreed because he wants you only short term for companionship and sex and will do the bare minimum to keep you interested.

[kc2043]

I have moved on.. haven't heard from this guy in 2 weeks and he lives states away where I can't meet him for sex

[kc2043]

So I don't go around having sex with people