Guys, do you find a girl attractive if she smokes?

[Babygirl_S]

Freya Allan with her cigarette

Let's say she's a fashionable choice as a partner : blonde, blue-eyed etc.

Is she still more attractive than other girls?

[bolverk]

A woman smoking is an instant turn off, it would not matter if she is a 10 in looks and personality, I could not stand dating someone who smells like the bottom of an ashtray, the same applies to women who vape.

[KostasKouvalis]

Maybe for hook up or friends with benefits, but not to date

[KostasKouvalis]

Happy Diwali, by the way

[Babygirl_S]

Thank you! ☺️

[KostasKouvalis]

Over 40 answers and you picked ME as MHO! Thanks so much! I'm flattered :)

[Babygirl_S]

It was an honest answer. You are welcome 😊

[KostasKouvalis]

What you been up to?

[Babygirl_S]

Not much really. What about you?

[KostasKouvalis]

Work, home and the occasional small trip. How was your Diwali?

[AviatorTom]

Nope, smoking is a turn-off for me. I once dated a girl who smoked, but not a lot. When we were together and she wanted a cigarette, I gave her something else to put between her lips... we got along just fine. 😎

[Keyboardkat]

Uh... just tryin' to think what that something else might have been...

[Keyboardkat]

Well, for me, it might be a show-stopper. You know, for a nonsmoker, kissing a person who smokes is like kissing an ash tray! And it gets into her clothes, into the upholstery in her car, and into her home. Pretty soon everything she's got begins to smell like stale tobacco! Anyway, with what we know now about smoking and lung cancer (which is an absolutely HORRIBLE way to die; you basically don't have enough lung left to breathe with and you suffocate), it's kind of become a thing of the past in the last few decades.

[bayoubob]

If she's attractive she's attractive. Chain smoker? Just less desirable. I've never considered myself a smoker even though I've probably smoked 60 to 100 cigarettes in my life time. I would do it while hanging out with certain friends or drinking. It never took form of habit. I did have a decent chunk of my life where I used chewing tobacco, so can I really talk? I say no because it's hypocritical for being addicted to nicotine my self. But, after a chew? You just spit it out, floss, mouth wash, brush your teeth. Disgusting sure? Yet no smell. No ash tray mouth, etc. Now if I hung out with a hot babe that whipped out a tin of Copenhagen and put in a dip? It might blow my mind as to where I might find it hot.

[yakumo]

Absolutely not. It is an immediate turn off. I cannot stand being around the smell of cigarettes. If she is willing to quit I can give a temporary grace period, though there probably won't be much intimate until then. Otherwise--without prejudice--I'd politely suggest she find someone else more compatible with her lifestyle.

[JacobJordan]

on a list of things that immediately place girls in the "do not even speak to" category smoking, drugs, regular drinking, partying, dressing skimpy, fat, very thin, excessive make up and a few others make for a very good way to eliminate people that would not be good for ones life

[Keyboardkat]

Just remember, everyone has faults, including you. If you have so many boxes a girl has to check, you might eliminate yourself from the market. Although I agree with you about smoking, drugs and drinking.

[JacobJordan]

@Keyboardkat I am married. But yes you are definitely correct. I would say it really comes down to setting unrealistic expectations. Largely anything to do with finances, height, other non controllable physical features is unrealistic

[glennos89]

Smoking isn't a preference we are looking for but it depends totally if a guy smokes himself or not. In general people who smoke are not having problems with the other sex smoking aswell but a non-smoker will be more likely to seek a non smoker as well because smoking stinks to them

[exitseven]

I dated girls that smoked. It was a lot more popular when I was dating. I dated a girl that smoked a lot. It didn;t bother me when we would have to go outside she she could have a cigarette and kissing her didn't bother me either. She made it look like the most enjoyable thing in the world. I tried it a couple of times but never liked it much. The only thing that was gross was when I would go out to my car in the morning after we went out in it the night before.

[Joshydavid25]

Well, I don't think making her blonde, blue eyed would make her more attractive than other girls.. Especially if she looks like the girl in the pic.. Not saying she's ugly but there's nothing especially "beautiful" about her. But to answer the question... Not at all..

[Lionman95]

no she´s the opposite she´s less attractive because I don´t smoke, so her smoking would be a dealbreaker.

[Nhomni]

Hmmm... smoking seems to be the kind of thing that tends to either be a turn on or a turn off for most people, so there's no real definate yes or no answer.