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Are there EVER any nice, decent guys in the dating world nowadays? Why do most guys just want sex from us ladies? (Page 2)
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Well, I'm here but, it's become pretty obvious to me, over the past few decades, that women aren't interested in us nice guys! They ONLY want assholes and abusers.
There are nice, good, hard working, respectful, caring men available. Were just not very good looking. Sorry to hear he cheated on you. I know that pain. You don't deserve that. He is an ass.
Thank you. Finally someone understands! A lot of people are blaming me and us women for men to turn out as assholes. It’s always the women’s fault.
Blaming women has happened since the beginning of time. Example, the Monica Lewinsky and Bill Clinton situation. They both cheated. But Monica Lewinsky was treated like crap and shamed for most of her life. Bill Clinton stayed President, stayed married, did a book tour and gets paid a lot of money to do speeches. It's bullshit. lol. I am sure you are very beautiful and a wonderful person.
So, if a guy takes cares of you when you’re sick, that’s a no-no? And I can see why no man wants you. You’re a cunt. Especially, to other women. Men don’t like it when women put down other women.
Whoa? I never said that! A man that takes care of his women is a huge plus? Did I say that a man taking care of a sick woman is a no no in my post? No! You must have read wrong or you’re blind.
You better take it back! I am not a cunt!
Well, you did say nurturing was a woman’s job so 🤷♀️ And that is considered as nurturing.
And I will not take it back.
Well yeah I said that but still! You called me a cunt and you’re a bitch for saying that! Take it BACK! You’re rude
LMAO 🤣 Nope
Whatever. That’s why there’s no decent people because they’re so fucking rude. I don’t play that garbage. Bye ✋🏻
The majority of guys actually want a long term committed relationship.
You choosing fuckboys specifically is a choice. That's like filling your plate with chicken nuggets on a buffet only to later complain that you don't even like them.
maybe if you had more substance then they won't cheat on you?
you sound very arrogant. realize that looks will get the guy but won't keep the guy.
What’s that supposed to mean? It’s my fault he cheated?
Im not going to say whose fault it is. But if every single guy ends up cheating on you, there's something you're doing wrong. Why aren't all other girls getting cheated on?
I don’t know. They have decent boyfriends.
What’s wrong with guys wanting sex? Is sex a one way street? Do you not enjoy it?
We’ll I just want to know if they love me and not just with me for sex? That’s why there’s no decent guys. Nothing wrong with sex but it seems like people only want others for sex and not love. Never had it
There are lots of nice guys out there and they get rejected all the time as too boring. I've met a lot of them overseas where they are appreciated.
Well if they’re good men but has a good personality and don’t take shit from no one then of course I’ll go out with him.
I think I am nice, decent guy, however I come with some issues that I don't think most women want. We are talking emotional, money, looks. Stuff like that.
I'm waiting for marriage to have sex, I do want love, and I don't cheat.
I am however very picky, though I don't care what height a woman is, and 5'10" isn't tall in my opinion.
Don't give it to them and force them to marry you first. Seperates the boys from the men dear.
Yes. If you really can't find any decent men it's because you have an awful personality or you're rejecting the good ones because they aren't tall enough for you or something silly like that.
Height has nothing to do about it! Why do guys always blame girls for looking for height? You jealous?
My personality isn’t awful, it’s straightforward
I didn't say height had something to do with it. I gave an example of you having possibly needing to lower your standards.
Reading comprehension: 0
You asked a question, I gave an honest answer, and you immediately wanted to argue. That could be why good men don't want anything to do with you.
Well I’m glad you’re honest but you can’t just assume all women are bad at choosing men. That’s generalizing. Just like society said all girls and women can’t handle the truth. Dumb. Who the hell is arguing?
Not ALL women are bad at choosing men, just the ones who repeatedly end up with bad men. Same for men, too. Toxic people end up with other toxic people because decent people won't put up with them.
The good news is you can always work on yourself and be better. You just have ti be willing to admit you have issues. Sure, you might be one of the select few who are just extremely unlikely, but it's very unlikely.
*unlucky
"most guys I like or encountered"
Maybe go outside those preferences.
Why should I?
Well apply some critical thinking girlie. If you are dating guys and all of them thus far have left you, cheated, been fake, etc, what is the common denominator? Your preferences/standards. Change those and you might have different luck. Though that is unlikely given your " I mean I am good looking, fit, thick and I have killer curves so I am stunning. I am 5’4”. Look I’m not trying to be a snob or have a huge ego, I’m saying all this because it’s the truth! Truth hurts, get over it." Massive ego much. If we are being honest the reason you can't find a good partner is you. You are in your own way with that ego. Also given the anon post and the insistence in comments about your looks I find it hard to believe you are attractive
Yes.
Usually girls have those guys in their friend zones.
Yep those are the guys you give dirty looks to and ignore.
In my life experiences I would ask if there was a guy who you liked who brought up some sort of talk about sex so you ended it? I have seen it many times. Then did you get alone with another guy and you let him have sex with you? So in the end who was the one who only wanted sex?
Men used to have to make a commitment to a woman for sex.
That was love and marriage.
Women wanted freedom and equality.
This is what freedom and equality looks like.
After reading your long and boring post. I would say that you are too opinionated and stuck on yourself. So much the nice guys that you seek will run. Not walk away from a relationship with you! Just as they have done.
Well if men can’t handle a blind and opinionated woman, then I don’t need them anyways. Us women don’t need men that can’t handle honest women.
if the guys you like are young than that's all they want is sex they have not grown up, yet you should date older men that know how to treat a woman with class.
There are. You just dont notice them because you think you deserve better
Also, you complain about guys only wanting sex, yet you only mentioned your physical appearance and what a bombshell you are.
We’ll it’s the truth! I don’t sugarcoat things. I say it how it is
You completely missed his point. You only talked about your looks. You said nothing about your personality. Are you a good person? No clearly not. Are you a kind person? Definitely not. Are you disrespectful? Yes. Rude? Oh yeah. Are you interesting? From your post no. Are you a bully? Definitely. Newsflash baby girl good men don't like bullies
I think you've just been around the wrong kind of guys.
Best part was mean I am good looking, fit, thick and I have killer curves so I am stunning
So? It’s the truth